Actually, I am pretty satisfied with my life & my gal but my first cousin seems sexually interested in me. She makes veiled attempts to caress me at times. I am committed to my gal However, I must confess that I also do not mind my first cousin flirting with me. Her very presence takes me to some other world...Am I wrong ??? Would this be termed as incest ?? It is because of this indecision that I am still not physically involved with her. What do I do ??
2006-10-25 23:38:19 · 21 answers · asked by Software_pro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude you are in a committed relationship. Yes it is incest and it could screw up your committed relationship. Don't sound your really committed to your girl. It is your choice but I would suggest that you don't because it can really mess things up for you for sure.
2006-10-26 00:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should decide what you feel for your girlfriend first of all, because if you already feel attracted to another girl it means maybe you're not so committed really!
and then the thing about your cousin is terribly wrong- genetically because you are related, morally for the same reason and it's also a sin by religious standards.
what you feel for your cousin is either uncontrolled hormones or your ego pleased with a girl daring enough to suggest that she wants you. forget about het- there's no future for you two!, you'll pay with a lifetime regrets for an hour of pleasure-it's not worth it.
better start a real relationship with your girlfriend if you really love her.
2006-10-28 18:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by monica06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if you luv this cousin, then its alright because u 2 are two different human beings so the culture that says the cousins could not be partners ot hubby and wife is a very stupid thing but if u are only sexually attracted to her than i am against it. neither of u have the right to fulfill Ur sexual desire with anyone whom you don't care, don't luv .
2006-10-25 23:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by saraha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just wrong. If you are happy with your gal then just get your cousin out of your head. I don't really know if it is incest or not, but I think it's very very very wrong.
2006-10-25 23:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man...that's your 1st cousin-----to close to the old family tree----and NO it's not incest----but it would be classified as inbreeding---and man----you had better put your hormones in check ....Dipping the wick in the family tree ---would like putting your wick into a deep pit of FIRE-----You wanna get burned----then go ahead ....and you'll pay forever the embarrasment your family will put on you!
You need to be forthright with your cousin----TELL her to stop this crap--- Tell you girlfriend---you and she can tell this cousin to keep her sexual advances and overtures to herself. Tell your parents and let them know what she's doing----MAN you talk about chastisement-----YOUR MOM / DAD will tell their brother or sister what their kid is doing----TRUST me....your cousin will stop this crap!!
DON'T you lead her on either and put yourself into a situation of the point of NO return...KEEP YOUR zipper up and your fly closed.
2006-10-25 23:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her presence needs to take you to the world of REALITY!! She's family...off limits...don't go there....
If you're really committed to your g/f , now's the time to show you can be trusted. Your cousin is acting like a ****. Tell her to stop it!!!
2006-10-25 23:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't any type of "affair" immoral? It doesn't matter who it's with, it's the act that is immoral.
2016-05-21 21:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah....as long as you reside (or were born) in Kentucky, Mississippi or Arkansas, you are in the clear. They teach "Keep It In The Family 101" your freshman year in high school. Did you miss that class??
2006-10-26 00:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, donot do it.
It will haunt you in future. When both of you get aged, you can not think about that Embarrassment.
2006-10-26 00:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by manu_bedil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is incest. It is wrong marally and in most states legally. Why even think about it if you are involved???
2006-10-25 23:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mary N 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋