i've been trying to get pregnant for 3 months not and i really don't know why as i think i have been doing everything right like havving sex on the right day at the right time of the month but still no result could it be because after sex if i move the sperm always comes out could that be why also after sex i usaly need to wee so it comes out then, has any one got any advice or ideas of things i can try. thanks xx
2006-10-25 22:39:10 · 22 answers · asked by Dreamah 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Just to let you know i'm perfectly old enough thanks! i already have a 7 old child and i'm well into my twenties!! (just to put you straight whoever said that)
2006-10-26 00:02:51 · update #1
it may have something to do with you moving around afterwards. i once saw an episode of Roseanne and after her and Dan had sex she laid on her back with her feet propped up against the wall to make it stay in her and use gravity i guess. i can remember that both times i conceived my sons that i didn't move around afterwards (I'm like you though...i usually have to pee afterwards). try laying still with your feet in the air. it may help....Good luck!
2006-10-25 22:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing anything wrong. 3 months probably feels like a very long time to you, but it really isn't. Doctors won't even consider you as having a problem unless you've been trying for over a year. Just relax and don't turn sex into a chore. If you're not already, the calculate when your body ovulates and try to have sex during that fertile period. And I'm not sure why, but I just read an article that says having sex every other day rather than every day during your fertile time is more likely to result in pregnancy. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 05:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't restrict yourself to sex only on the right days, don't be lazy. Do it every day to be sure. Wee before or even during sex, it will turn him on to come more and you won't need to wee after. Then go to sleep so the sperm stays in.
2006-10-26 05:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it but if you are worried put a pillow under your bum and lay still for 10 minutes that way your pelvis is tilted to help the sperm along.... 3 months in not a long time though good luck
2006-10-26 05:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is just enjoy sex (making love!) and do not worry about falling pregnant. Sometimes it is the worry (release of certain chemicals by the body) that can delay the occurrence of pregnance. It's not easy to forget about the need to fall pregnant, but the anxiety certainly needs to be reduced somehow. So happy sex life and before you know it, happy pregnancy!
2006-10-26 06:51:53 · answer #5 · answered by 1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm... I'm going to get a litle graphic here but make sure you orgasm after your man - the cervix contracts and 'dips' into the pool of sperm (make sure you're on your back with a pillow under your bum). This action basically 'sucks' up the sperm! Stay like that until your orgasmic contractions recede... and enjoy!
2006-10-26 05:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get too concerned yet. It took my hubby & I about 2 months to get pregnant with our first son. But it took over 10 years to get pregnant with our second son, and almost 2 1/2 years to get pregnant with our third son!
My periods were regular as clockwork, we don't know why it took SO LONG between the first two?!
But if you're worried, go see your doctor, get a physical, and see if he thinks you need to go see a fertility specialist. But I'm sure it will happen when it's meant to.
GOOD LUCK & HAVE FUN TRYING!!!
2006-10-26 05:49:29 · answer #7 · answered by Cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time hun, 3 months is not a long time an dont stress and if in doubt have sex every night and every day as much as possible!!!!!!!!!!!! xx
2006-10-26 06:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its cause your worried i mean im not an expert but from what ive heard if you turn sex into a chore if you like rather then enjoyin ya self it wont 'work' as well trust me ur prbobly more likely 2 gt pregnant wen ur not tryin consult your doctor he could probably help. good luck for the future hun xXx
2006-10-26 05:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by devils sweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different, it`ll happen when it`s meant to, sometimes over trying can hinder it, because you get anxious about it just relax and enjoy trying to make a baby. It`ll happen when you least expect it and if your still concerned try your GP.
2006-10-26 08:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by hunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋