I went out with this women I met online and I really seem to like her. We talked a few times though emails and the phone. I think she is very attractive. When we did finish our date we did cuddle in the car for a little bit, because it was pretty cold that night. I also told her that I didn't want someone who was clingy. I would like to know what you ladies feel about this.
2006-10-25 22:31:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can call. but it depends on , whether she likes your call or not.. also, if you call her everyday and she likes your calls, then she might take you very seriously, thinking that you are really interested in her.. and maybe more than you actually like.. so be careful not to lead her , if you really not sure ...
well, it is good that you have already said you donot like clingy ones.. nobody likes it...but well at times if you really like someone things happen without realizing..
2006-10-25 22:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by hi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not quite sure I understand the question. As I read it...it seems like everything is going fine. As far as calling someone everyday after a first date, for some people that would probably be too much. I suggest you go with your gut, you'll know soon enough if its too soon for that much attention and then try to back off a bit. Its always a bit dicey in the beginning...but that's also what makes it fun!
2006-10-26 05:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by TLD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you tell the girl the who don't want a girl who is clingy yet you want to call her every day? Hmm, I hope she is forgetful. If I heard those those words and then received phone calls every day I would run for the hills because I would not want some one who is indecisive. But hey be my guest about calling her every day. I would just IM her a short note saying I liked the date and would you like to go on another one.
2006-10-26 05:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I hear "I don't want someone who is clingy", the first thing that comes to my mind is "This guy is afraid of commitment". And then I stay away from him, no matter how many times a day he calls. That's just me though/
2006-10-26 05:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So whos calling who?It can be a huge turn off and as quick as the relationship started...it could also end.We all know that one of the golden rules in dating is not to seem too clingy.But ultimately,it all depends on what you guys want from this relationship and if u want it to last,then already you guys are off to a bad start.
Thats my opinion.
2006-10-26 05:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yea it is. Or you can just text her good night. Since you met her online you can just write a little letter expressing how good of a time you had. Keep it short and leave her guessing and she will hit you up if you don't hit her up first.
2006-10-26 05:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you asked for ladies, but I couldn't help myself. It's a bad idea.
2006-10-26 05:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by ericscribener 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhhhhhhh.....yeah.
You wanna call her every day bbuuuut... you don't want HER to be too clingy?! Whaaaaaa?
I don't get it.
2006-10-26 05:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by RAVEN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋