People tallk about NOT loving because they want to protect their emotions and their feelings and not get HURT. So, they build up walls. But, if WALLS are built to keep PAIN OUT, isn't LOVE also NOTgoing to be able to COME IN?
2006-10-25 21:58:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is something that you could never keep out of our life since God created us with love. Trying to build a wall to keep things out as love you are hurting yourself more than protecting because you are holding back everything that you were made of. No matter what you have experience before don't ever let that hold you back from going out there and loving again.
2006-10-25 22:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those people have a hard time trusting, They allow love to come in, in very small doses, until they trust that person with their heart. They might build walls but that doesnt mean that the people who are true to themselves and to the love for that person cant walk through those walls. It's a beautiful thing to watch a person who doesnt trust much of anyone learn to trust and love you as a person. Remember tho, the people that gain their trust can still hurt them and will be kicked back behind that wall forever if they are not careful enough.
2006-10-25 22:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by Ashlee K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when one has been hurt so much has been kind of drained with nothing more to give & needs time to 'recharge'. Unfortunately time goes by & nothing happens, and it is really difficult to find a way to open up even if you want to.
We all try not to hurt ourselves & we all built walls. BUT love hits you when you least expect it, the minute you are caught off guard. People we meet and deny our love because of fear or people we deny for the same reason are either not meant for us or the timing is not right.
So, no matter the walls when time & the people involved are right love will find a way. (to hurt us once again, but who cares? Our hearts need excersise otherwise they stop working)
2006-10-25 22:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by marissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes building walls keep a person from falling in love and possibly getting hurt.
But as you said, there will be no love, there for the person has to decide.
Do they want to take the greater risk of falling in love and being hurt or going through life like a ghost.
2006-10-25 22:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can relax so deeply and accept things to such an extent that you feel love in everything. you will still react to oppose things which seem out of harmony with the circumstances, but there is what i guess is 'unconditional love' for life itself which goes beyond all circumstances and forms. i think letting go of the ideas which make us tense and consciously relaxing into every moment can take you to a love that is unconquerable. while i think this will give you great 'power' in the world, this love conquers the fear inside, rather than obstacles outside, which may still persist.
2016-03-28 07:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When one builds walls its because of being afraid to get hurt and allowing themselves to be vulnerable again to love. Love after all is risking being hurt most of the time to experience great love is to risk greatly.
2006-10-25 22:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by avid_rafter765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the concept correct. How can you win if you don't play?
I guess some people are just happy with a mediocre life.
Personally, I'm not one of them. I have loved and lost, and will keep going at it until I get it right. She must be out there somewhere.
2006-10-25 22:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because one tends not to accept love to keep PAIN OUT =)
2006-10-25 22:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by miyachan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, exactly thats why they never find loves and you should not be putting up walls
2006-10-25 22:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can transform itself to anything,there could be bars to avoid you from passing through but love can change into liquid and pass through.so no matter what they say if its ment to be no walls can block love.
2006-10-25 22:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by chatax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋