even though he says he has learned?
2006-10-25 21:18:10 · 16 answers · asked by Brunette Diamond 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO dont waste your time...u could end up very hurt...once a cheater always a cheater
2006-10-25 21:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put it this way! If he cheated on someone...What makes you think he won't cheat on YOU! and please don't say it's because he loves you more or that he has alway's wanted you. Because girlfriend that is all BS Don't fall for it or your gonna end up falling and not for the good. Remember this: Once a cheater always a cheater.Every guy that I know who has done this to there girlfriend has turned right around and done it to the next one. Crazy Huh! Besides I think you already knew this answer other wise you wouldn't have asked. I wouldn't do it if I were you. Good luck on what ever choice you make.
2006-10-25 21:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by sunnydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is different, and people behave differently in them. The way he was with someone else isn't necessarily how he will be with you. I agree that the 'once a cheater, always a cheater' is crap. If a person is in a fulfilling and satisfying relationship, they won't cheat. If they aren't, most likely they will. At least you know he cheated in the past, if he was up front with you about that it is a good indication that you can trust him. Chronic cheaters always lie about it. I think you shouldn't worry about his past and concentrate on your present.
2006-10-25 21:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey may have learned his lesson. Or it's possible that you have what it takes to make him not cheat. I think the whole "once a cheater always a cheater" line is BS. They say that because they couldn't keep their men happy, so they got cheated on over and over.
2006-10-25 21:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take into consideration how long it's been since the act was done. Is he/she a repeat cheater? Are you willing to be hurt in that way? Do you feel he/she has learnt? Are they worth the risk? Ask yourself those questions and hopefully you will find the answer because unfortunately they is no cut-case answer.
2006-10-25 21:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a=b, b=c, therefore a=c, and all these can be true of math or of any logical science; defintely not true to animals, leave alone a man. Just because he has cheated a girl, dont come to the conclusion that he cheats all girls, or worse still, dont conclude that all men cheat every girl.okay???
2006-10-25 21:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe in second chances, but take things slowly, and don't be shocked if you get burned. I dated someone who had cheated, and for six months he was faithfull, then one day he calls to tell me he'd had sex with someone else. It was devistating.
Honestly, you're better off waiting for a quality guy, but if you feel this guy deserves a chance, as I said, just take it slow and protect your heart.
2006-10-25 21:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by lilgiggle33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
casually-maybe....but honestly a recipe for a disaster ahead!....but do your homework first to find out if the person really is a cheat!
2006-10-25 21:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Amit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf is going out with me and i cheated with my x
i just always get what i want
2006-10-25 21:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.i agree with the first answer.go and find someone can be trusted on you.dont waste your times..
2006-10-25 21:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋