Is it wrong for busy people to have casual physical relationships with no strings? i.e Fook buddies?
2006-10-25 20:58:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not into this and will not say it's right. You can get some professional advice here http://theresa.wee.googlepages.com/home
2006-10-25 21:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never worked out with my fook buddies. I always let them know where they stand, but it always goes wrong. I let them know they're not the only one, they accept it, are casual, then start acting anything but.... one started making food for me and turning up with it at my door (apple-pie was great though), another one had little heart shaped chocolates in a bowl, then heart shaped cushions the next week, then a photo of me appeared on her desk.... well, you get the idea. Keep it 2 or 3 dates then break it off, saves breaking hearts - and I don't care what kind of player you are, breaking a girl's heart makes you feel lower than you would by shooting a kitten.
2006-10-26 04:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No such thing as a "no strings" unless its a one time thing. Otherwise someone will develop in the very least an attachment, and that brings along all the stress and jealousy of an actual relationship with none of the security.
2006-10-26 04:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by dopeygrin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be done but it is better to have a f*** buddy in a serious relationship. Real love mixed in makes it better! Casual or not strings are there!
2006-10-26 04:07:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't see how it can be if 1) neither one has a partner, 2) both are fully in aggreement re no-strings and 3) condoms are always used. Sounds fine in theory but in practice it's strange how often one of these criteria is not met.
2006-10-26 04:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by crosbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then maybe you do think it is wrong. I would say it is fine as long as both parties know where they stand, and are adult enough to make the decision. Just be warned, if you fall in love with your 'buddy', then may not feel the same!
2006-10-26 04:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a can of worms, Morally wrong- depends on whose and what morals you are working within. In the UK it is not illegal as long as your partner is above the legal age limit and consenting.
So really the ball is in your court.
I'm sure most would say if everyone is enjoying and it is not detrimental to health, then go for it.
2006-10-26 04:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people, recreational sex suits their lifestyle just fine. For others, raising the level of involvement beyond just the physical is where it's at.
It's a personal choice.
2006-10-26 05:08:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong...Have you thought about Aids and STDs.
Perhaps this is your way of searching for your soul mate. I don't believe anyone is too busy to have a relationship. If you are interested in someone you make the time to be with them.
2006-10-26 04:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so, as long as the person you are fook buddies with know where they stand
2006-10-26 04:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in it... and it is the best possible way to fulfill ur physical needs alongwith doing ur daily routine work without disturbance.
2006-10-26 04:01:42 · answer #11 · answered by kaps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋