If you really love someone, do you really ever get over them, even if it is all over?
2006-10-25 20:32:05 · 15 answers · asked by charmed one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it does. You will eventually get over them but Memories cant leave you easily. I do think back of my past relationship not because it want but it just happen. Now all i could recall are happy moments.....
2006-10-25 21:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does not heal all wounds.
You, however, have it in your power to tell yourself to get over someone, particularly if you're not talking about losing someone through death and are instead talking about a breakup.
If you were in some relatinship where you loved someone and they didn't love you back enough you're lucky to not be in that type of relationship now, so tell yourself that and tell yourself to get over it. Time may not heal all wounds, but it can make them a little less painful. The real cure for something, though, is to replace the sad thoughts in your head with as many happier thoughts as you can find. Eventually, the sad thoughts get pushed to the back of your mind until after a while you can't even find them any longer
So decide to fill your head with as many pleasant thoughts and experiences as you can, socialize with people who are nice to be with and who make you laugh, watch some sitcoms, enjoy the fresh air and sun, and realize that somebody who didn't love you isn't worth a whole lot of stewing over.
Life is short. Why give such a person more of your life and thoughts than you already have.
2006-10-26 03:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is love the only thing that wounds? You'll get over it. You can make anyone into some mythical creature to be worshipped and made into some fleeting example of love. As time passes it is not the wound that you notice that is healed. It is more often we see how pathetic our thoughts were to regard someone as being so great. We all have our flaws and sometimes we are blind to other's flaws so much that we don't really see people as they really are. We puff them up into something they usually aren't. You will more than likely laugh at your infatuations later. Listen to the old folks and recall what they said about these matters. You will find they were usually right about this sort of thing. You will get over it. If you don't the person won't lose any sleep over you I promise.
2006-10-26 03:58:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They heal, but as with a real wound there could be a scar. Most scars don't hurt, but are just a reminder of the injury.
And the love you have for someone will take up a tiny little place in your heart. New love will fill your heart and the pain will be a dim memory.
2006-10-26 03:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does heal all wounds, but the keyword is time. You will feel sad for several months, but it is smart to wait that long before trying to get into a new relationship because you will be more than ready to close the chapter of you and your ex and begin a new chapter with you and that new special someone.
2006-10-26 03:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time only numbs the pain the wound never heals it is always bleeding it just that after a while we ignore it that is why we think it is healed and you never realy get over it probably unless if you have alzhmers or something lol jk but no you never get over it
2006-10-26 04:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by confused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that could get deep i guess that just depends on yourself its not good mentally to hang on to someone who your no longer with let them go u never stop loving them but it does get easier if u cant live without seeing them try the "friends" thing but im gonna tell u now that is not easy either take some time for yourself tell your ex not to write u call u or nothing and keep your mind busy
2006-10-26 03:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by pimp48879 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
Time can heal all wounds BUT time needs ur help too. Help your self getting over. Its hard but it works.
2006-10-26 03:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup - give it time. The feelings will subside, and the pain will withdraw. Life will go one, and you will find the real love you are supposed to find. This one obviously was not for you, or it would have worked.
It sounds like a string of cliches, but there is a reason that cliches become cliches - most of them are true.
2006-10-26 03:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by zdrgnslyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe not!!! well, i knew this guy and i think i love him... we had a fight and i never talked to him again. it has been five years or more since we last talked.. It is a very long period of time but every time I see him..well...i just can't put it in words...huhuhu!!! yes it is really over but I can't explain the feeeling..
2006-10-26 03:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by casper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋