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a good friend of mine which I have known for years (male 24) has never had any luck of getting a gf , now like a good friend that I am I said I would try out an idea every answer I receive back from a woman will be counted as a vote for him by doing this iam hopeing to boost his confidence and maybe one day he might actual get a gf but for now confidence is a good start

2006-10-25 19:37:32 · 7 answers · asked by mycerrie 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

7 answers

if i'm not a wemon, can i answer too?
maybe he's just not attractive, and u r right, confidence is the key.

2006-10-25 19:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Heather K 1 · 0 0

He should try and analyze the reasons why he doesn't have a girlfriend. Maybe he's not meeting the right type of girl, a girl whose compatible with him. What types of places does he meet women at? Maybe he should be looking somewhere else. Confidence is key, but can easily be mistaken for arrogance. Maybe the women he's met so far didn't like his personality. For me, personality is a big factor, and having a good personality can even make a guy look cuter! Most of all, he should be patient. Often things don't turn out right when you try too hard, but there is some effort required on his part cause he just can't expect to sit around and get results. And he should know he's not the only person in the world with this problem; all these online dating sites are evidence to that!

2006-10-26 03:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0 0

He should start being an outgoing person if he's shy and forget about being shy. He is not to be rude and know how to respect all ladies. Know how to have fun, go out places and have a good sense of humor. Don't be too serious because too serious is not that fun. I have confidence he'll get a girlfriend. He's still young. He can going online and start dating, but on my opinion I believe it's better in person.

2006-10-26 02:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 0 0

You must believe it can happen. Visualization is such a powerful thing and it's private and free. Each of you can sit quietly for 3-5 minutes and imagine him in your mind happy in a relationship. See his face and relaxed demeanor as he stands alone, beaming with confidence. Imagine him with the perfect woman - and while you won't see her face, you can imagine that she is just as happy to have him as he is to have her.

Believe it can happen, will it to happen. Thoughts become things, so choose the good ones - and anytime he hears himself saying "I'll never have a girlfriend" or anything negative about this he should stop himself and say "That is not true! Love is just around the corner for me!" Live it, baby - it can happen!

Peace!

2006-10-26 02:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell him, " For every pot there's a top." .... and that he should relax, take care of himself- work out regularly, so when she (first gf) comes along, he will look and feel his best. It will happen when he least expects it to happen.

2006-10-26 02:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0 0

1st thing 1st- try conducting a survey on your spellings.

2006-10-26 02:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bear 3 · 0 1

here

2006-10-26 02:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by m m 1 · 0 1

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