Well today I broke up with my boyfriend of more than a year we have a 6 month old son together. I broke up with him because i felt as though he would not be able to take care of us and even though i feel he loves and treasures our son i dont get the same feeling about him loving me even though he begged me not to do this he even cried about this should i get back with him or tell him that im sorry and i truly love him?
2006-10-25 18:27:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fix it while u can and learn to talk problems out instead of taking such serious actions...they only lead to hurting ppl
2006-10-25 18:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need time to yourself right now to figure out things, dont keep the child from him, but you need to get a place of your own and have time to think about where you want to be in life. Stay away till you calm down for a while as well as he needs to calm down as well. Give it two months or more if you need it, try to depend on yourself for awhile and take care of yourself and your child. See if he can make any changes and if hes willing to, and than see if your willing to give it another shot at it. But give this as a time away from one another and focus on just you and your child. Let him know that you care about him still, and let him know what the problem was. Just take it day by day, and the answer to what you should do will come to you in time.
2006-10-25 18:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you jumped to a strong reaction without thinking. You didn't really say how you expect him to "take care of you" or why you don't think he loves you. My concern is that you are jealous of the attention he is giving the baby, and if thats true-you're being selfish.
You need to figure out whats important here. If it is a financial thing-you should have figured that out before you got pg. But its too late now, so you need to sit down with him and figure out what his plans are and how they fit with yours. If you "truely" love him, then I don't understand why you called it quits so soon. Have you considered that you might be suffering from postpartum depression and that it may not be either one of your faults? Take a good look at the whole situation and do whats best for your child first.
2006-10-25 18:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT MAY HAVE BEEN A MISTAKE BUT ONLY TIME WILL TELL
IF YOU FEEL THAT HE NOT GIVING YOU WANT YOU NEED
THEN YOU DID THE RIGHT THINGS. IT HARD TO SAY WHAT
YOU FEEL WHEN YOU HAVE A CHILD TOGEHERT. YOU AND
HE WILL ALL WAY BE THERE IF NOTHING ELSE FOR THE
CHILD. BUT ONLY YOU KNOW HOW YOU FEEL JUST GIVE
IT TIME AND SEE HOW THINGS GO DOWN THE ROAD.
2006-10-25 18:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...what about the kid...at least give it solid chance and if it doesn't work kick him to the curb out of your life...not the kid's
2006-10-25 18:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by loofa36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him and be be afraid.. theres not alot u can do.. bcuz by now he is truly hurt.. n ill u can do is tlk 2 him and be honest of how u feel about da situation...
2006-10-25 18:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by TraVieZa_420 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what makes you happy then go on...if still love him then get back to him but if you dont love him anymore then better to let go..well he should love his son...just move on...Godbless
2006-10-25 18:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my dear presumptious girl, it was a mistake. One you better not make, again.
2006-10-25 18:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him about your feelings.
2006-10-25 18:30:50 · answer #9 · answered by rwhz199 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋