we went out 9 months ago 4 one month.I was his first g/f, we took it slow till one night we kissed,he got over excited,we kissed passionately and touched each other(clothes on).but even though he was the aggressor I think he got scared off,he took me home way earlier and I was sad,he tried to cheer me up and said he'd call but he never did. I saw him in August and told him I didn't hate him,he stared at me for 20 secs and said he had to go.btw a cashier and his younger brother were right there.a few nights ago I saw him while I was cleaning a register, he was right beside me, I looked at him and I swear he said hi to me but I wasn't sure so I looked down,didn't say anything to him,as they exited the store I think his father looked back at me.2 nights ago(real cold night) he ran into the store,got something quick and ran out,I was outside going 2 push carts,he saw me and kept looking at me as if he wanted 2 say hi but was scared,maybe that I was mad or of rejection.what should I do?
2006-10-25 18:16:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in the 9 months I haven't been able to get over him. I really want a relationship with him. do you think he's still interested and has feelings 4 me?next time I see him I'll ask him how he's doing, ask him if he has a second 2 talk. ask him if we could hang out again and watch an anime movie he likes? good? whatever that's not gonna scare him off but will give him confidence that I like him and wanna hang out again. and forgive him for not calling. I don't wanna bring up the past and make him uptight though. just to have fun. should I tell him I missed him? or maybe save that till we hang out. what's the chances that he'll even wanna hang out again?
2006-10-25 18:19:13 · update #1
Either write him a letter stating, "Do you like me? Check yes or no" or move along. I used to be so shy that I actually ran from a girl I liked, but guess what...I didn't get the girl. No matter how shy he is, he should have the testicular fortitude to be able to say hi and explain to you what happened. Besides, if he's this shy, he's not someone you want to be with because when a real problem happens, he's doing the same thing now that he'll do then...run.
2006-10-25 18:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to find out what happend last time, it might be all a missunderstanding that you guys could of fixed, but you still need to know what happend. If you dont want to bring it up now you should later on. Yeah i would say go for it, at first say hi and be all friendly ask him hows it going, but i wouldnt ask him out to anything yet...its too soon. you want to get friends with him first...than after two weeks of being nice to one another and talking a lot more, than ask him what hes doing on the weekend ask him if he wanted to you guys could catch a movie or somthing. and see what he says, if he pushes you away than just ask him if you could just get a answer out of him and ask him what happend with yous. tell him that you think you have the right to know and its killing you not knowing what happend, if you did somthing wrong or what. if he doesnt push you away and goes with you to this movie, try to re connect your old friendship and see if yous can start over again...but if he pushes you away at anytime just ask him what is going on and why hes pushing away.
2006-10-26 01:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what i would recommend u to ask one of your friends to talk to him that they think that u could be a "great friends" and u are being shy and didn`t know how to start conversation but u aren`t talking about that with your friends but they just feel that and that u had changed since that night,and one more thing can u email me at davitusa1@hotmail.com i want to ask u more questions.and don`t talk to him ,but show that u r attracted.
thanks for answere ,I`m not shy but I just wants to know how girls are thinking about that.
2006-10-26 01:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jony Cash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u no his cell number? if u do-text him. its always easier 2 start....if u dont then try 2 talk 2 him first-c if he will b interested. if not then just try 2 move on. good luck!!!!!!
2006-10-26 01:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, but it's been a long time so a player will play.
2006-10-26 01:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by keithr2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE BOTH OF YOU HAVE SOME UNFINISH
BUSINESS THAT YOU BOTH NEED TO GET SOME CLOSURE
TO, SO NEXT TIME YOU SEE EACH OTHER JUST TALK TO
HIM AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL.
2006-10-26 01:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seem,s like you got played on this fellow is a player .9. months and you want him the problem is this seems like he dont want you. . my opion?
2006-10-26 01:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it. or say hi if you want to. is he tHAT SHY?
2006-10-26 01:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋