I have this wonderful guy.. The best I ever had..a wonderful fella.. treats me like a queen and loves me for who i am and nothing else.....but. im so FREAKIN BORED! I wanna date other ppl sometimes..and go on with sort of a single life while in college. I already feel married....But he is a wonderful guy! someone give me advice...am i being greedy? i dont know what to do...
2006-10-25 18:00:00 · 11 answers · asked by Wow! I have a pig nose! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So either you crave a bad boy who will treat you like crap, or the guy you're with is too predictable, or you feel "the grass is greener on the other side". Suggesting that the two of you date other people will break his heart and if you decide that after dating other guys, you really want the one you're with now, he might not welcome a reunion. For now, I suggest you mention to him that you'd like for the two of you to do different things.
2006-10-25 18:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ure bored then u have to discuss that with ure boyfriend because maybe you guys can do something to make things more interesting and cure that boredom.
As to being with other people because u want to be single... well, guys like him don't just come around the corner every couple of minutes, if he's that great of a guy. A majority of the guys out there are not good at all--- trash. You can never find a guy like him again.... but thats not a good enough reason to stay with him.
I got with my girlfriend on the first week of college and we both questioned if whether we'd miss out on things when honestly we have... but we don't regret it because I love her and she loves me back. All we need is each other.... and when things get boring we make it interesting again.
But again... u have ot ask ureself, how do u feel about this guy? Do u love him back? These questions might help u answer ure question... because if u know u may never be able to love this guy... then why waste his time... maybe theres some great wonderful girl out there who may be perfect for this guy and eventually find him... but if u do think that u are that wonderful girl meant for him then u should definately not worry about missing anything in college... Because he'll probably treat u better than most guys will.
2006-10-26 01:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by X Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not in love..thats what it is...you really care for this guy..but not in love. you found a good man , but what good is it if you dont want to be with him and date others. you need to tell him that you care about him alot but you think it would be best that yous see other people for now, and if yous are meant to be with one another than yous will find a way back. But for now, yous should try go on a break. You need to be honest with yourself and him. go out and have fun if thats what you want to do. if you dont do it now you will regreat it in the long run.
2006-10-26 01:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking for someone that will treat you like dirt?
There are a lot of guy who will gladly do that for you.
Take a good look at what you already have, before wandering away.
Most likely it is just a sign that you haven't matured, just yet.
2006-10-27 18:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Woody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass is always greener on the other side. But a lot of times you regret waken on the other side so make sure your ready to give him up for good.My advice is make your own choice's carefully. Good luck.
2006-10-26 01:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by janelle p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself...... don' t you think if you break up, you' ll hurt the guy' s heart?? why don' t you talk to him... explain to him your problem.... ask him suggestions instead of other people.... You both can start a new type of relationship all over again. Tell him your desires, what you really want in a relationship.... I bet he' ll be understanding.
2006-10-26 01:08:46 · answer #6 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
College costs a couple arms and a couple legs. Plus single life, is not worth it.
2006-10-26 01:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you said here. If he loves you, and you understand eachother, maybe he can step up and spice up your life. Maybe he's holding back too, you never know. Tell him you're not trying to change him, just wanna have more fun.
2006-10-26 01:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to break up with him and date other people..
Just remember...
If you ever decide you want him back...
He might have found someone else....
2006-10-26 01:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, this is a natural feeling. Just remember that there's a lot of crap out there.
2006-10-26 01:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋