I found out my boyfriend did cheat on me when he swore he didn't, I'm 3,000 miles away because of illness and can't be there with him. I have been thinking of suicide alot latley, and today has really put it in my mind.
2006-10-25 17:59:28 · 13 answers · asked by elodie_uncensored 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
just think your life might be shitty right now. but there is always someone's who's life is even shittier
2006-10-25 18:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry that happened to you. It hurts. It hurts real bad. I believe most of us have been on that side of the cheating end at one time or another.
It's a bad day and there will always be better days ahead. I wish I knew more of what to say because i don't like to hear people talk of suicide.
I hope the kind words in the replies help you sort out some feelings. As for the boyfriend... he's so not worth you, try to move on.
Hugs
2006-10-26 01:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a reason to be depressed and it's very difficult to rise above it. You feel betrayed and somehow you are not sure if you are partly to be blamed. As low as you feel right now it will not always be this way. As difficult as it seems to see it right now, someone will come along that will love the real you, just the way you are. It might be best for you to reach out to a close friend right now. Don't dive in to meaningless sex just to get back at him. After the short term euphoria of being wanted, you'll just get more depressed.
2006-10-26 01:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about what happened to you....... I dont know what to say really. But I do know this. You need not to think things like that. The way I see it is that he was just not the right one for you. And that there is someone out there for you that will treat you right and wont do that to you. I really wish you would not think things like that. God has you here for a reason and I know he will send you someone to be good to you and he does not like you thinking that way. He just wants you to be happy. Why would you want to be with someone that done that to you. Really you should be happy you found out. I mean what if you married him and he done this to you, then it would be a lot harder then it is now on you There are so many other guys out there that I am sure would love to be with you. I know right now you feel that there is no one out there for you. But I know you can find someone again that you can trust and will not hurt you like this guy done.
2006-10-26 01:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by caiti d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start living 4 yourself. Each day will get better if you TRY. People come in and out of our lives for a reason, some to make us stronger, and maybe subconsciously he is to make you stronger mentally, emotionally, or spiritually. If he cheated he missed out, and that means that don't need to be around someone like that who will just bring you down in life. People will disappoint us, family, friends, and even spouses, it is just how you deal with it. I think that you were put here for a reason and to kill yourself is not one of them. Enjoy life, go to a movie with friends, or to a favorite concert, play your favorite sport(s), the more that you think about him the more deep you get sad or depressed and my philosophy is if you are not thinking about me then why should I waste my time thinking about you,
You can't come back from suicide, but you can come back from a bad relationship and become a new, confident, strong person.
Get to know yourself and Love yourself b4 committing yourself to someone else, even if it takes some time/years, therapy and etc, do it for you and for your Life, fight 4 your life, and your well-being.
Best of Wishes!!!!!
2006-10-26 01:22:50 · answer #5 · answered by Breann 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a minister in Atlanta Georgia and I would like to talk to you. I won't to say that suicide is definitely not the answer to you problem. For some that may seem like the easy way out of all of your problems but I can tell you that your problems will on be starting if you do commit suicide. I would like to tell you of someone that loves you and wants to help you move beyond your problems. No man is worth sacrificing your life over so please talk to me.
2006-10-26 01:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by lynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man isn't worth killing yourself over especially one that cheats. You deserve better. Just hang in there, you will find someone trustworthy soon enough. Remember, everything happens for a reason just sometimes we don't see the reason until further down the road.
2006-10-26 01:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best revenge is living and living well , and who knows by next week he might be at your feet begging for forgiveness been there a few times a guy did that to me once it took 3 months and he was at my door begging by then i was over him and who needs that abuse and for a whole year he pestered me . live and be happy good luck if you still feels this why you should talk to someone who cares about you or get help
2006-10-26 01:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by kerriknowsall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life lessons are the hardest when we are forced to change our beliefs. Many of us in this section have found that out the hard way . We did recover and so will you and you will change your beliefs now.
2006-10-26 01:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey there i was there too my girlfriend did cheat om me while i was hospitalize for 1 year yes it hurts but why your self over it if your dead you can not take revenge he will feel bad for a bit then he will be free to be with whom ever he wants to LIVE revenge is a meal eaten cold
2006-10-26 01:19:33 · answer #10 · answered by CROSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok suicide is not the answer and thats the bottom line...email me if you want to talk
2006-10-26 01:01:41 · answer #11 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋