more off than on due to somethings that really annoy me about him. People tell me I need to be stronger and not put up with ****.
I have been in two relationships before and don't want to take any crap anymore, if I can help it. About 6 months ago I met a nice guy a party. we went out and I enjoyed myself but left him because I thought i wasn't good enough for him. Then I started seeing the last guy for a bit. not much. really just because I was lonley and need someone to hug. The guy that i left has now been messaging me to go out. He has seen my soft side as well. The last guy knows me but I feel i can't be myself because too many things annoy me about him. Is it ok if I go out with the this other guy?
2006-10-25 17:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by Leigh J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look hunny I think you need some selfconfidance and go out with the guy you left. He obviously sees something special in you. Also, your only as good as you see yourself to be.
2006-10-25 17:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by SexyVixen255 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh, by all means!!!!
I don't think it's good though for you to EVER doubt yourself! You will scare the guys off!
Certainly give the messaging guy another chance! Be yourself and be friends first, and see how you both get along, and go from there!
Just don't push him away AGAIN, ok? Everybody needs friends! Sounds like he is interested in you to contact you again! Go have some FUN and relax more, ok?
Best of luck and don't be TOO hard on yourself with the "other" guy! :-)
2006-10-26 01:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the guy thats makes you feel good.
Never ever think your not good enough for a guy, don't let yourself be your own enemy.
He has asked you out and wants to hang out with you, why should you make yourself feel that way?
You have to be strong and tell him straight that your not putting up with his sh*t anymore and that he doesn't deserve you, he never has.
2006-10-26 01:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get yourself together before you bother thinking about being with someone else. Know who you are, what you are, where you're going, and what you want in a partner. Then find someone to take the ride with you. Until then, don't torture any men with your indecisiveness.
2006-10-26 01:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY THIS LONG, THEN IF
YOU FEEL THAT IT NOT GOING WHERE IT SHOULD. THEN
HE DESERVE THE TRUTH FROM YOU. AND IF YOU WANT
TO GO OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE. THEN YOU NEED TO
LEAVE THIS ONE ALONG. YOU CANT OPEN THIS CHAPTER
UNTIL YOU CLOSE THE FIRST ONE. ONCE AND FOR ALL.
2006-10-26 00:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋