I am a 26 yrs old Asian woman,told many times that I am pretty,smart and funny.I just recently met this Caucasian restaurant manager (he came up to me and asked for my number) and we just took off!Had an amazing 1stweek together,met all his buddies and even his dad (I was over his apt. when his dad arrived to visit from out of state).I guess coming out of a 7 years relationship,I am used to stability.So the 2nd week,I became "clingy" (I admit,I really do like the guy and "dating" or "sharing" a guy, I JUST DON'T GET IT).He told me in the beginning to "chill and relax" he likes me "a lot" and that we should take it slow."Have faith that I do like u a lot."So I've been nice to him, tried to take it slow,since his dad is still in town.At night when he is drunk he will text me all these sweet stuff like "u are nutz,but f**ken cool and f**en hot".i like you a lot,we just need to chill."But in the day time,when he is working,he is super cold to me.In fact there are days no calls/texts.Help!
2006-10-25 17:47:05 · 7 answers · asked by Gina C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE HE REALLY DOES NOT KNOW
WHAT HE WANT AND MAYBE YOU NEED TO LET HIM
KNOW THAT THE OFF AND ON IS SOMETHING THAT
YOU REALLY DONT APPREICATE . AND THEN MAYBE
IT TIME FOR YOU TO LET THIS GO, AND IF HE REALLY
WANT THIS REALTIONSHIP THEN HE WILL WORK
AT DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT. IT WOULD BE
HIS CALL.BUT I WOULD NOT WASTE ANYMORE
TIME WITH THIS NONSENSE.
2006-10-25 17:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 21:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your second week of being clingy is a bad sign- and if he gets drunk- sounds like problems- don't ignore the warning signs- and do chill and don't be in such a hurry!!! CLLINGY is a turn OFF!!d
2006-10-25 17:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not ready for a commitment with you . he has told you to chill and take it slow ...meaning he is not ready for a serious relationship with you . try to not call him or text him for a week or so and see what his reaction is. if he contacts you then you will know he misses you and wants to see more of you .
2006-10-25 17:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stuff like your nuts but fu ck en cool is not sweet. you need to find someone who will treat you with respect drunk or not and plus you need to learn not to expect too much from a guy.
2006-10-25 17:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what this guy is thinking...seriously.......while u're stressed out, maybe u should confront him of his attitude.....or u also can treat him like he did to u......let him know the message behind the act......if he's concern, he will change.....if not, forget about him......he might jus be playing with u.......good luck!!!!
2006-10-25 17:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just not that into u.
2006-10-25 17:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋