i like this guy and i'm really really shy and i don't know how to tell him that i like him plz help!?! i was thinking of sending him an email over a 4 day weekend so it wont be so aquard seeing eachother the next day.
2006-10-25 17:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by anime_manga_geek 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay here is a story that happened to me that can help you. I was talking to this guy that i really like. He wanted to know who i like. I thought he liked my friend. After he signed off i told him through email in a really nice casual way. And then at a football game that everyone goes too on my island he asked me out. I said maybe. I wanted to find out who he really lliked. i asked him if he liked me or my friend better he told me a good story that i could tell was true and i said yes. He is now my boyfriend. The only thing that is wrong is that we want to spend time together at school but we cant really the only time is at lunch because he is not in many of my classes. And at lunch our friends are all there and pressure us to talk and the more they do that the more we dont talk. But I can tell we both really want too! I love him now and he loves me we spend more time together now. It sounds like agood idea today.
2006-10-25 17:30:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... Emails aren't the best means of communication. I feel (and have seen) they aren't good when it comes to anything emotional. People miss inflections. And it makes for some HORRIBLE misunderstandings.
I would recommend you tell him face to face. Just saying something like "Hi. Umm, I'm really really shy, but I just wanted to say, I like you, and wanted to know if you'd like to go out (or get coffee) sometime?"
Nothing ventured NOTHING gained:) Worst thing is he says "no" but the best could be he says he'd love too and have been trying to muster up the courage to ask you.
A life lived in fear is a life half lived.
Ask him in person :)
Good luck,
Tree~
2006-10-25 17:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tree S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that is good for you,then just tell him that you like him.But for me,we as a girl should wait until the guy do the first move because can you imagine if the guy doesn't like you and he laugh at you,you will be more shy.. My advice for you is,no matter how we like the guy,we must wait until he the one who told you first that he like you because he is a guy.. You know what i mean,right?> Anyway,good luck..
2006-10-25 17:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont send an email and dont hide --- tell him before and you may get to spend some time together over the weekend
2006-10-25 17:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depend how close you are ,if he is ur colleage or classmate it doesnt need to tell something or sending mail ,all things you need its to be yourself and he can read from your eyes.eyes reveal your feeling about him ,if he is smart he can read ur eyes,if not let him go
2006-10-25 17:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kathie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice, but he might kinda forget to talk to you, if its a looooooooong weekend like that.
2006-10-25 17:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea
talk to him
compliment him
2006-10-25 17:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by bukowterpol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋