Am I on the right path?

Question

I was once so in love with this guy that I couldn't see straight, but over the time period things happen and I end up getting hurt very badly. It's been a little over 3 months now, and I recently started praying more and more. I've asked God for strength and to take my pain away. I do understand that God is everything and without him were nothing. Now I'm starting to think I'm at peace with my newly single life. Is this the beginning of the healing process? Any other helpful advice, some days are still very hard

Answer 1

Yes, it is the beginning of the healing process. Just continue in the word and keep on looking to God for guidance. God Bless you.

Answer 2

Miss Cakes, my story exactly to the tee, and I have done the same thing, the only thing I might add is that when the thought enters my head, I ask for it to be taken away and to be replaced with some other than the past, this works on those hard days. I find that I love her and one day she will be back in my life, just with a different face.

I AM

Answer 3

It's perfectly normal and even godly to desire to be in love. I should know! But after so many times of being disappointed by men, it becomes ever so much clearer that Y'shua (Jesus) is the ONLY man who will never disappoint us. So we tend to draw closer to him each time. I believe that when we get to a point that we are so committed to HIM that we will love him and serve him no matter what our marital or relational status, that he may bless us with a mate. But for the time being, we must adopt the attitude of the three Hebrew children - that even if God DOESN'T deliver us from the pains of being single and lonely, WE WILL NOT BOW. That we reverence him with a ferocity and passion just like the three Hebrew children did!

Answer 4

Mark 11: 22-26

I think you need to look up fruit of the lips, and speak,
You will find, your to speak out healing in your life over you, and then you can go on..
Do a bible study, lips,,,,, and speak, and spoken word.
Its in the power of the tongue,,,,
God said its finished with Jesus.
You will get your healing when you feel peace when you think of him.
God can not move you forward until your whole,
So if you wanta go forward, let go of the past. And ask God to bring in your 7 ribs. Somewhere your soul mate is out there, ask God to bring him into your path, and go on with your walk, you keep your eyes on God, he will open them up with your soul mate in his time, Read Romans 8 and 9
Take Gods word for it.

Answer 5

here's some advice:

mumbling into your hands and pretending that a god hears you and is taking notes is a little silly, and it's egotistical.

Please, do not listen to any of this adivce.
I think it's wonderful that you came to God in your time of need .
I know if you stick close to God He can and will see you through all of your hard times and He will heal your heart! I strongly believe in this because of my own personal experience.

Answer 6

Yes, you are Healing. It Takes Time, you will make it.
In the Future, Remember the Lessons that you have Learned.

A Wise Person will ask for Wise Advice.
Ask GOD.

Answer 7

here's some advice:

mumbling into your hands and pretending that a god hears you and is taking notes is a little silly, and it's egotistical. thinking god is a dating site or a boyfriend counselor is someone on the verge of mental illness.

break-ups happen. chill. have a cup of coffee. there are a lot of people out there.

Answer 8

God normally fixes everything in ways you wouldnt see as helpful but its incredibly helpful, the fact he did something you saw as helpful means you got a friend up there.

Answer 9

They will get easier and God is walking with you threw it all,you said you already feel better about it and it will get better and better,God has someone else in mind for you just keep on praying and walking with God

Answer 10

Yeah, it's gonna take awhile. I do believe you're on the right path. Stay strong.