I know that he loves me but he also hangs out with the other girl and shes my friend and she has a boyfriend so I know that she wouldnt do anything but he likes her and it bothers me! I dont know what to do about it!
2006-10-25 16:24:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes also my friend and she has a boyfriend who shes completely in love with and I know he likes her because he said so a couple weeks ago!
2006-10-25 16:29:33 · update #1
And I cant just break up with him because I love him and I cant help it-I almost broke up with him like 20 times already but I never go through with it! And he's always saying how much he loves me and now I talked to him about it on Friday and hes stopped hanging out with her as much but they still hang out! And what bothers me the most is that she is a total whore and flirts with him even though hes mine and I've told her that! But the second I come around hes all over me and he forgets that she even exists!
2006-10-25 16:33:25 · update #2
THANX for all your help on this!(except for the threesome one-she has boyfriend and hes already pissed at her)
2006-10-25 16:36:28 · update #3
I've asked him about it and he always finds a way to change the subject from that to how much he loves me or how much he misses me when Im not near him but it bothers me that he can't even tlk about it! But hes also best frinds with m friend and m friend told me that he only has a little crush on her but I'm not sure.
2006-10-25 16:40:41 · update #4
And no-hes not horny cuz hes in in the 8th grade! and his first kiss was with me!
2006-10-25 16:55:47 · update #5
Forget About it! I took some of your advice and me and him had a talk and are happier than ever! THANX EVERYONE!!
2006-10-28 02:29:16 · update #6
talk to your guy.. there isn't anything that can't be solved with talking and compromising.. ^_^
2006-10-25 16:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by sugarplumpricess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not ever have important communications over the phone, or in texting for that matter. The majority of our communication is NOT in words, but in facial expressions, intonation, etc ... and you miss that over the phone. He says he loves you. Hon, that can mean so many different things, and only ONE of them is actually love. He's right, somewhat ... he can't help it if he likes another girl. But he CAN help whether or not he feeds this feeling for the other girl. The more he thinks about her, the more he will like her. He sounds way too immature to be ready to deal with his own thought processes, and that's what makes relationships work. Also, he's pretty darn self-centered. A caring guy, if he like another girl, would NOT tell his gf ... he would be empathetic enough to realize that this does NOT put her at ease. Quite frankly, he is still at the "loser" stage of relationship skills. But then, so are you ... he asked what was wrong, and you were not honest. You lied and said "nothing". Relationships cannot last without honesty ... it's scarey to make yourself vulnerable by telling the truth, but that's the only thing that makes relationships work. Neither of you are ready for this relationship to last, so start emotionally UNinvesting in the relationship so it won't hurt too much when it breaks up.
2016-03-28 07:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him about it... Find out if she is just a friend or if he sees more than just friendship... He will most likely say she is just a friend, but try to pick up subtleties in his voice... Being in a relationship is All About Trust... So if you don't trust him he probably is not right for you... Communication is the key though... Even if you do sound a little insecure or jealous... He should understand if he truly loves you..... After hearing more details, if he is interested in your friend and she can tell you if he ever makes a move, no telling what he might do with a girl who doesnt even know you.. I would end things before you get seriously hurt...
2006-10-25 16:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by quillsie726 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
3-some
2006-10-25 16:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please---------face the fact that he is horny. At least he was honest about the fact that he wants to do her too. But that hardly makes him admirable. If you think you can win him by sleeping with him you are sadly mistaken. He is only concerned about “getting some”. Not that that makes him evil, just VERY immature. He is not mature enough to be faithful to you. That’s ok, because you are not married. But don’t dwell on him. When you meet “the one”, you will know because he will NOT be interested in anyone else.
2006-10-25 16:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by motorcyclegrandmama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confront him and talk to him about it, ask what goes on in his head when he's with her, you wanna know dont you? So canfront and ask. If he feels the way you think then you got a problem, but if he only likes her as a friend then you have nothing to worry about.
2006-10-25 16:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're sure that he likes her, and doesn't really see her as just a friend, then I would end it...in my opinion. At least that way, you don't lose a friend AND a man. But, do what you feel is best.
2006-10-25 16:27:54 · answer #7 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell your boyfriend that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he loves you so much, he would understand how you feel. Believe me, I've been through this. Two kids later, we are divorced because it's always about what he wanted.
2006-10-25 16:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by So far away 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do u even know what he likes her? If something was to happen between them you'd be upset. I wouldnt trust him if you know that he likes another female.
2006-10-25 16:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm
I would be upset.
Just tell him how you feel about it. And talk to your friend too. Let her know what's going on.
2006-10-25 16:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i know honey, we old people been there. i remember when i was 16, and i thought i was in love with my across the street neighbor, knowng he had another girl in another town. i even laid down in the corn field for him to keep him.......... he married the other girl. moral: don't give til you get.
2006-10-25 16:29:49 · answer #11 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋