why do i look dead?

Question

i have a very dull look. my eyes have bags under them. many people tell me i look dead and should live a little.im tired of everyone telling me my sisters are prettier and have more friends. i dont have friends since im really qiuet and reserved

Answer 1

How old are you ? If you are still teenagers, don't worry about it.
You go through changes when you are growing up.
Kids looks cute and pretty may grow up to be strange looking adults. It is too early to tell how you may become. Remember the story of ugly duckling.

Anyway, I know you are upset and depress about your looks and your social circles right now.
But don't let you down. I think you have a long future in front of you. Looks can be changed easily but intelligence takes time to build up. I found some of the most attractive ladies are the smarts one. Some girls looks good on pictures but when they start talking and start working, they are totally stupid. Smart and intelligence girls has a special charisma in them that attracts other people.

My suggestion is that you work hard in school work and study hard. Be a smart and intelligent lady. You will find many admirers down the road.

You can take my word to the bank.

I know people who looked stupid and ugly when they were kids. But when I see them now, they are absolutely stunning. They are confident and smart. They have certain glows in them.

Answer 2

aww it's ok.

for the bags under your eyes I suggest placing cucumbers on your eyes. That will help any puffiness go down. next, get a concealer and a make up brush and dab some of the concealer under your eyes.

Next, get a very lightweight foundation (like a spray) and wet a triangle make up sponge and squeeze all the water out and spray the spong with the foundation and dab it onto your face. that alone will lighten up your face so much!

When it comes to washing your hair, use a shampoo and conditioner made spicifacally for your hair color. Shower in the evenings.

If your hair is naturally waivy or curly, add a curl activator jel to your wet hair. If it's straight and flat, add a product that will make it fuller. (add to wet hair or whatever the directions say to do)

Try to avoid going to bed with wet hair. blow dry it or let it dry naturally before you go to bed.

There are also things you can be doing in your diet to help your outward apperance. Eat your fruit and vegtables, drink lots of water and cut down on fast food, soda and candy. Take a multivitamin and walk or jog everyday and all of this combined you will glow.

in the morning when you are doing your make up, use mascara on you top lashes to make your eyes pop. Like one that thickens and leingthens your lashes. As far as make up goes, that's all you need! Besure you have a good skin routien that you follow morning and night and get at least 8 hours of sleep.

It's ok to be quiet and reserved, but try to break out of your shell a little. I know that can be hard because I am very shy. When your at school stand up straight and keep your head up and look people in the eye and smile. You dont want to appear stand-offish. Try to get involved in things you like (like if you like soccer, join a soccer team) that way you are around people with similar intrests. If people approach you to talk to you, try not to shy away. You never know, you could make a new friend. Life is hard without friends.

As far as people comparing you to your sisters, ignore them. Dont try and be someone your not or get depressed and frustrated because people take it upon them selves to judge you. Just be confident in yourself. I know that can be eaiser said than done.

Answer 3

People used to say that because of my pale skin. But i found how to make it look beautiful, and more cheerful. I just dyed my hair to a lighter color, and i wore brighter colors. I cut down on the eyeliner too

Answer 4

Do you have allergies? I know that I used to have bags under my eyes and for years people told me I inherited them, but in fact all it took was the RIGHT allergy medicine to make them fade and now I don't have them. Just a thought - it worked for me!

Answer 5

thats creepy. ghost-like. I think its a really good picture. I wouldnt say dead tho since your eyes are wide open and alert.

Answer 6

don't get so down on yourself, just find something that you really like to do, and use that as your distraction, and don;t pay attention to what others say.

Answer 7

frist - get more sleep
- dress in nice cloths not 2 baggy or 2 black and deperssing

- laugh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! * crys that she doesn't kno the meaning of laughter*

- be happy !!!!!! i kno its hard but just watch family guy or south park that helps me!!!!!!!!! or sing!!!!

- HYGENIE IS SOO IMPORTANT!!!!!!NO GREASY DOWN GROSS HAIR IF UR GUNNO LOOOK NICE!!!

-take care of urself!!!!!!

-Do this for you!!!! u'll eenjoy life more this way!!!!!



<3 lotsa luck gurl!!!

Answer 8

get some concealer, & some blush. it's an instant wakeup to the face :)

Answer 9

Exercising? Try it.

Go see your doctor! How should we know?

Answer 10

Ok? yu look dead? but do yu smell dead? might be a problem?