I have been talking to this girl for two years on and off. I finally got up the courage to tell her that I loved her and that I did so much I would give her the world and then some. When I told her she didn't know how to react. The thing is I don't know if she loves me or not. I know I can't make her love me back, but what can I do or say to find out if she loves me back? What can I do to get her to realize that I would love to be with her for the rest of her and my life?
2006-10-25 16:16:50 · 20 answers · asked by bubbajoe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have only been talking to her on and off for 2 years, how in the world would you expect her to react? How could she possibly have known when it's only been a casual friendship as far as I can tell by what you wrote. Why don't you try giving her a chance to fall in love with you. I would start by going out on a date!
2006-10-25 16:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, Meditate and ask yourself are you really ready for the relationship? Age doesnt matter when it comes to love but, Are your ready for the responsibility? Ask yourself. Is she already seeing someone? Ask yourself. Is her heart with others? Ask yourself.
There is one thing Girls Love to see, "Be A Man" if she avoid you, then just confront her and maybe you can say, "It's fine, You cant stop me loving you and i cant stop you taking me as a friend either"
To get her back as a friend then start slowly again, let her realize your love is true (if you are lucky enough, just take her as a normal friend first). Anyway it is better to lose her once and for all...
Good Luck !
2006-10-25 23:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by gerald j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you blew it and it doesnt look like she loves you back the only thing to do is make her realize she does love you. To do this you need to act (ACT not TELL) like you dont like her like that anymore and she will wonder why. Then if you find a new girl she will get jealous and want you back. Then you live happily ever after/
2006-10-25 23:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by steve d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you caught her off guard and she is trying to figure out if she loves you the way you love her.. She just needs time to think about it.. Maybe you should try to call and just start talking and then bring up the subject like "does that mean you don't love me back" kinda stuff... the truth may hurt but at least you will know...
2006-10-25 23:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by sweetchic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls a mistery but you sound a puss... This advise is IT! Girls will fall in love not be grabed. If you were a women and said that to a man it would work... Turn the table and add excitment on you end. Try dj tip of the day you'll have to search it on the web, it's the best thing you'll find. No thanks needed bro....
2006-10-25 23:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by Joey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it doesnt seem like it but theres plenty of girls like her, but if you think shes the one.
You should probably stay back and take it slow. Get some of you friends to talk to her, and see what they say. Then swoop in for the catch again.
2006-10-25 23:21:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jakee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you laid out your soul for her and you got no reaction.
If she doesn't respond soon, don't waste your time on anything but a casual good friendship.
I blew two years of younger days waiting on the girl of my dreams. She didn't have the same dream :( !
2006-10-25 23:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by farmersb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if she has been with you for 2 years most girls would hang about with a bloke for that long with the possibility that you might leave.
i think she likes the fact that she is holding alot of the cards and you now have put your hear on your sleave
2006-10-25 23:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by vickidillon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words my friend.. dont bother askin, just listen to what she's saying when shes not talking to you.. if she's avoiding you, or distant, probably not. if shes hangin around more, and calling you more, wanting to hang more and more.. BAMMMM thats the ticket
Good luck!
2006-10-25 23:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Jonny B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she did not respond back with an I love you too response she does not love you. Don't be pushy you might push her away. Just be honest but not overwhelming. if its meant to be it will happen.
2006-10-25 23:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋