My ex-husband constantly calls me and goes on and on about his sex life and women he's seeing; I don't feed into it, I try to change the subject and then I act like I don't care. I say, "well, good luck, talk to you later." Then the guy I'm seeing now plays mind games. He is always making these scenarios up for me to get angry at him, but I can see right through his ****. And I don't feed into it. Am I'm sending off something that attracts this? All I do is work and take care of my daughter, why do they feel the need to keep screwing or playing games with me?
2006-10-25 16:09:03 · 9 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your EX just tell him you don't want to hear it. only talk to him about family things times to pick up the kids from school, school activity's, stuff a father needs to know and that's it.
Boy friend,,, say bye bye ,,, look at what you attract then run. if you feel an attraction that should send up a red flag, remember you need someone to help you and support you not play stupid energy robbing games, learn to like yourself and that you don't NEED a guy. everything will fall into place
2006-10-25 16:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just posted a similar question. In the case of your ex-husband, I think it's a way of trying to sound like he has moved on when he hasn't. If he really had moved on, he wouldn't need to tell you the gory details of his sex life since you split up. Try and keep the conversations limited to child arrangements and cut him off at the pass when he starts telling you about his sex life.
I don't know what to say about the one you are seeing. I am also getting a bunch of games from a person I am interested in. I feel like I am being direct and communicating, and he is just trying to be a player or something. Maybe it's how a guy who has been burned a few times deals with relationships as they get older. Maybe they just stop investing any emotional depth into relationships and play games.
2006-10-25 23:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You attract bad company. Dont talk to your ex. Dont allow the mind games. You need to be single and focus on YOU and your daughter. Find out who you are and why you attract these kind of men and turn it around! You have to when children are involved.
2006-10-25 23:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by angelalf1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Initially, I would say that you allow the environment for your ex and your boyfriend to act negatively toward you. Lady, you need to have more respect for yourself and others will share that respect. If they don't, then you need to get those people out of your life to the largest extent possible.
Bottom line, they wouldn't play games with you if they know you would not allow it.
TX Guy
2006-10-25 23:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HAVE YOU EVER TAKEN TIME TO THINK IF YOU ARE SUBCONSCIOUSLY CHOOSING TO SETTLE FOR LESS THAN YOU DESERVE BC MAYBE YOU FEEL THIS KIND OF MAN IS ALL YOU CAN GET OR DESERVE OR MAYBE IT IS THE FIRST MAN TO COME ALONG AND MAKE YOU FEEL NOT ALL ALONE?
2006-10-25 23:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because Hun, men are jerks.
2006-10-25 23:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your easy to f*ck with stop ask yourself what is it about your p*ssy that attracts crazy muthafuckas
2006-10-25 23:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you let them. grow a pair and be strong. if you seem weak they'll continue to do it.
2006-10-25 23:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your easy
2006-10-25 23:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Doctor Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋