i have a she-friend who is 58 years old but i am only 25. our friendship was vey simple before. now she sent me a mail and told me that she wanted to do more than that...and she told me that she wants to do it with me tomorow when we meet. so what is your opinion. can i go for it or not?
2006-10-25 16:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by lionceau 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
58, 58, what in heaven would make you even think of doing this...she is not a friend she is an old lady looking to get with a 25 yr old who I hope has the smarts to run like he has never run before....and this question sounds to far out anyways..there arn"t to many 25 yr olds looking for love in an OLD AGE HOME......miia
2006-10-25 18:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well going for it or not is really your choice. If you have feelings for her then maybe you and her should sit down and talk about it like adults, but if you don't have those kind of feelings for her then I think you just need to be honest with her and let her know that you only want to be friends. You don't want to lead her on if your not interested in her in a sexual way. I hope this helps you out.
2006-10-25 16:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by rainydayislandgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a e-mail and advise her that something has came up and you will not beable to attend your meeting. Don't do it dude! you do not need that mess. at 25 you have lots of options and to get involved with someone's mother (her childern may be older than you). you want to experience that type of relationship go to navada and buy yourself a one nite stand. You really need to completely brake that relationship off or you will pay for it in the end.
2006-10-25 16:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by denfasr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer that question. If you like her and would have sex with her do it. If you just want to have a friendship just tell her that.
If you do want to sleep with her do not worry how people may judge you because of the age difference etc. Just do it because you like her and just not for sex.
2006-10-25 16:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be dumn do her as many times as she wants unless shes real ugly
2006-10-25 23:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by tiny_dick1932 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait you havent met her? and tell her no.
2006-10-25 16:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her NO,NO, NO, NO!
2006-10-25 16:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋