we're in a long distance relationship (different country, and a very distant one).
2months ago, we were attracted to each other, he ask me to be on a relationship and to work on it..and i agree.
but since he's not trying to make any contact for almost the last 3 weeks (but i'd tried to contact him by emails, offline msg, and calling him on phone..., but no answer and no respond), i would like to break up with him by just sending him an email.
is it OK?? what d u guys & gals think???
2006-10-25 16:02:28 · 19 answers · asked by funneh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he already believes things are over so dont be pushy...just send him an text message/email telling him its his loss not yours-it might benefit u to get your feelings out that wayjust dont over do it...a simple im over it is good...
2006-10-25 16:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by jeka_kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be OK for you to end a long distance relationship by e-mail. Especially if you've tried to contact him and you get no response.
He should not expect you to just wait around on him forever.
That being said....
If you're interested in a new long distance relationship let me know, I will e-mail as much as you like.
2006-10-25 23:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Example 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously isnt giving you the courtesy of responding, why should you care to give him the courtesy back. But I will say do what you think is right. How would you feel getting a breakup via email. Perhaps you might want to mail him a letter and give him a chance to call you after he reads it. If he doesnt call you, then you know what kind of man he is.
2006-10-25 23:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by angelalf1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he hasnt bothered to get in touch with u for 3 WEEKS, dump him. thru email is ok cuz hes not being considerate of u so y should u break up with him more personally trying to be considerate of him? u derseve to break things off and find someone better
2006-10-25 23:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by mommy2soon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are unable to reach him, sending him an e-mail to break up would be okay. If I were unable to reach a guy I would e-mail him or send him a letter in the mail. If I were unable to do so in person.
2006-10-27 15:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it he isn't exactly relationship material and he appears to be rude if he has had no contact in 3 weeks and still expects you to be there.
2006-10-25 23:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you confined to you bed? I'm just not sure why you would consider this a relationship worthy of this worry. I hope you find someone.
2006-10-25 23:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by jbsim75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like its already over. Send an email saying "go f*uck yourself asscock." And move on.
2006-10-26 10:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't contacted you in 3 weeks? I think he has already ended it, sorry.
2006-10-25 23:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by SJ_Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why do you care. If he sent you one how would you feel. Let me ask why are you breaking up with him?
2006-10-25 23:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by mafiaqueen1900 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋