2006-10-25 15:58:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That isn't a question, its a declarative statement so just like jeopardy I ask the question that corresponds to your statement:
How do I know I'm insecure?
2006-10-25 16:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by white_yack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love yourself first, you will never feel lonely when you have you to love and to care for. Take yourself out to a movie and a dinner, treat yourself to a day at the spa, take yourself out shopping and splurge a little. So when a guy does come along you will accept nothing but the best from the example of the way you have treated yourself.
2006-10-25 23:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by missmozee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means that you are depending way too much on a man. and now that your single its hard, and you dont know what to do. you need to take time to yourself and find out who you really are as a person without a man on your side.be able to lean on yourself and depend on just you. go out with the girls and have fun, do things that you wouldnt be able to do as much when with a man. enjoy the single life before you get with a man that will be forever...thats when your going to wish you did have that single life just a bit longer.
2006-10-26 00:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way but, guys like girls who are not advertisers. They like the girl that has so much confidence, she acts like she doesn't need a man. They like that in females especially if she has something else going on ex. own car, job, life!! So just relax girl and be happy that your single. If you rush it now then you get somebody that you'll regret.
2006-10-25 23:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Careatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you just have friends who happen to be guys also ? Do you need to be involved with a guy right now ? Sounds like you want to have fun & not be tied down yet. Don't let "loneliness" cloud your judgement.
2006-10-25 23:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by george g 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be single and you should learn to enjoy being by yourself. When you get older, no one really wants someone who seems to NEED someone else. You should be content with yourself and learn to enjoy being single adn not being attached all the damn time.
2006-10-25 23:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a new hobby. Read this book to help you understand yourself better:
Radical Honesty, by Brad Blanton, PhD.
2006-10-25 23:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by shlomogon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out and have fun, you dont need a guy to make your life happen. dont sit at home saying "oh poor me" go out there and be outgoing and have fun.
2006-10-25 23:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then get out and mix and find another guy --- where you find him i have no idea --- i dont like clubs and pubs and found my lady on a adult friends site (supposed to be sex but more like a chat room looking for relationships more than sex)
2006-10-25 23:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a bar, get drunk, hook up (one night stand), wake up, if hes not gone, kick him out, dont take anything for the hangover andsee if you feel the same way. good luck and happy hunting!
^.^ nikolae
2006-10-25 23:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Nikolae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋