So, really, how long do you think a girl should wait before she has sex with her boyfriend....I'm definitely not a virgin, but I want to wait this time around for a bit to make it better later on...because it does, doesn't it?
You'll probably say "whenever it feels right!", but I do kinda want him pretty badly, lol, so I'm kinda blinded by that...And allllso, I know guys always want to do it, but, do you think ultimately they like the waiting better sometimes? Or do they get fed up? Please answer, thanks!
2006-10-25 15:50:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gods design for sex is within the bonds of marriage. To have sex outside of marriage you open a whole can of worms. Like STD, AIDS, Unintended Pregnancy. Ask your self will I be happy if this guy gives me a STD, AIDS, or if you become Pregnant by him. If You do have a sexual relationship with him and you become pregnant than what? Continue the pregnancy or terminate. Please just think of the can of worms that you will open up
2006-10-25 16:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Roddi F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are too easy, you won't last. You will likely lose to the next girl that provides a good hunt. If he respects you, that will give you staying power. Not all guys get fed up waiting. Guys who are worth it will wait. Do you really want a guy that can ONLY stand to be with you if you put out? What should your relationship be based on? Shagging or friendship? Best friends who marry each other are the way to go. Not all but many relationships don't build properly because sex drives the dynamics, and you don't get to know the other person and become best friends. If you want more than just sex with this guy, and are looking for a long-term relationship or marriage, then waiting (perhaps till marriage) will tell you whether to keep him or toss him back.
2006-10-25 16:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by diesel_pusher2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man respects a woman that has respect for herself!! The way that a woman carries herself tells alot about her!! There are too many diseases going around and several unwanted pregnancies!! Just remember, that you have to live with the decisions you make and the consequences that follow! Most men do want to have sex, but good men will not rush a woman into having sex!!! Sex isn't everything in a relationship because either person can get sex from anyone without having to be in a relationship with them!! Just because you wait to have sex doesn't make it better, but getting to know the person first does!!! Sex is better when emotions are involved because your feelings will also be expressed and more will be put into the sex!!!
2006-10-25 16:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait at least 6 months before doing anything with your new boyfriend. It is better to make him wait than to rush into things too quickly.
2006-10-25 15:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it would be better for the future and i think its a good time to wait you should read the book about a girl and her boyfriend and he wants to have sex with her and cant wait any longer and he presures her and then they go to a party and put a rooffie into her drink and she fainted and she broke up with him for life and they really loved eachother. you may think that you wouldnt do that, but you never know, so you should wait.
2006-10-25 15:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Harley C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well basically you don't want to act like you are so horny that you just gotta have him in the bed,,,but don't put it off too long or he might just find someone who will put out a little sooner...And waiting doesn't really make it any better...
2006-10-25 15:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i had sex with my ex in da first night i met her, we hanged around for 10 month, but this is unlikely for other men. remember easy come easy go, which means don't be cheap.. and make him feel how precious you are.
but you never know!!
although i hanged around with her and loved her, but usully I wouldn't like to go out with easy girls.
that's me, how about urs? find out!
2006-10-25 15:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Qonsul * 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say your daughter was not a virgin and she asked you this question. What answer would you give her? That is your answer.
2006-10-25 15:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by jdnmsedsacrasac1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait till ur married for the next time! ;]
2006-10-25 15:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As funny as this sounds guys don't always wanna get you on your back.
2006-10-25 15:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by bukowterpol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋