Last July I met a lovely girl, we went on our first date in Augus. By September, we were dating. But I enjoyed this moment only for a month. You see, she's a JR. at IL ST, and she can't handle the pressure of being in a relationship and doing well at school at the same time.
My heart sank, as she said she couldn't date me for now. But then it only got worse. She dropped my down on her myspace top 8 and then took me off it. She deleated all of the pictures of me on her myspace and facebook. And to top things off, she told I friend she dumped me for mulitple reasons.
I tried IMimng her and calling her. But she says "I'm rude". Maybe I am, but I'm not letting her off the hook. Thne a friend of mine decieded to fight with with her by telling her that she was stupid, which of course made me ex pissed.
She won't speak to me untill Thanksgiving, but I need to know if waiting is the right thing right now. My birthday is NOV 29, and I would only want one thing--her.
2006-10-25 15:46:20 · 21 answers · asked by Timmy Mic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her go if she comes back it was ment to be. but the truth is she just treated you terrable and some weman are like that. Dont waste your time wating for her. Just go on with your life and if she starts calling you just keep her hanging for a while. people are so bad with peoples heart. and they dont realize how bad they make people feel. you should enjoy the rest of your life. you never know when it will end. dont waste it on false hope.
2006-10-25 15:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry guy but you should get over her and find another girl who will treat you what you deserve. My thinking is that she had another boyfriend and just need someone else to get with for a while. So just leave her and hey maybe in the long run you'll think back and decide she wasn't worth it any way. She was just playing you. Hope you do find some one else who will love you and appreciate you. There is a lot of lovely girls out there with a better personality than her.
2006-10-25 22:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetie here goes. I hope you dont take this too rough but maybe she doesnt feel the same way you do. You seem to be in love with the person.Se is playing hard to get. If you love her dont let anything stop your happiness. Maybe you should go talk to her, if you're not inthe same school then go to her school and talk to her, tell her how you feel and ask for a second chance. This is the best way to make you happy, maybe if she sees how you really feel she will say she feel the same way. So my advice to you is talk to her, tell her you love her, then ask for a second chance. You need this, no you deserve this much. Good luck sweetie. Sincerely Rachel aka Ray
2006-10-25 22:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds quite immature, with the Myspace thing and lying about why she broke up with you. By the way, the school thing is definitely an 'easy let-down'. You can try talking to her about why she broke up and ask if there's anything you can do- tell her how you feel honestly and you may win her back. But if she's still not interested, try and move on. It may not feel like it but you will eventually feel differently. Good luck!
2006-10-25 22:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by twasbrillig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mail her a letter. don't push things. just mail her a casual letter. not an email. a letter says that you took the time to write it and mail it. write it on special paper too. and put a pic of the two of you on it, that will make it extra special. just say Hi, how's it going kinda stuff and at the very end tell her that she's the only thing you want for your birthday. don't say anything about why she dumped you. don't write anything about your relationship except that last little P.S. If i we're her i would totally get back together with you. if she doesn't, forget about her.
2006-10-25 22:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzy_keno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the feeling of rejection turn into a false desire to have her back. She doesn't sound like much a gal in the first place. Just move on. The less you care this girl and more you go one with your life, the cooler you are to most females (including her).
2006-10-25 23:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Aspurtaime Dog Sneeze 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. The more time you spend obsessing, the more you lose out on as far as other potential girlfriends go. The honest brutal truth...shes not into you anymore. Girls who are interested in a guy will not cut them out just like that. She did. Move on, you'll find something better. You deserve more than that. And the more you obsess, the more you will drive her away anyway.
2006-10-25 23:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by angelalf1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, the whole myspace, facebook thing is only one thing... DRAMA!!!!! don't take that for one single second!! don't ever believe a thing you see on that page.... if you really truly care about her that much, then tell her. all you can do is try, because if you don't then all you'll have is regret. good luck!
2006-10-25 22:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done that. i'm telling you it's not worth waiting for her to relize what a good thing she had.there are better people out there that will like you for you.when she does speak to you tell her how you feel about her maybe she'll see the light
2006-10-25 22:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by William G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy eary birthday and maybe as a birthday present she will go out with you and maybe you should wait until she talks to you girls dont like men scaring them
2006-10-25 22:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Harley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋