so i've been with this guy for 21 months, and recently we've been having a lot of fights. everytime we get into a fight he decides to just break up and i agree, but everytime we get better in a day or two. this time it's different we broke up and it's been 4 days, i know it's not long but this time i think we are really going on our own directions. i kind of want to go my direction because my goal is school, family and my future job. his goal is to enjoy life right now and not think of the future. most of the time when i WAS with him i thought about our difference and how are we going to last being together for so long. but after this broke up i really miss him and always think about good reasons to go back to him. but i know the bad reasons are strongest and i shouldn't go back to him. so what should i do? move on? i'm so confused and i really love him. can two different people really be together forever?
2006-10-25 15:36:41 · 2 answers · asked by m i s s e d d d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it is hard but you are in thinking that the best thing is to just move on. Right now you two are not compatible no matter how much you love each other. Unfortunately love is not enough and as hard as it is some times the one you love just isn't right for you, at least right now. When your life goals are so different you can never have peace and what good is a relationship if all you do is argue and break up on a regular basis.
2006-10-26 03:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to suggest this book to you. I've been going through some Men Trouble, like you. I ran across this book called" It's called a break up because it's broken". It's the best book I have read other than "He's just not that into you" these books are by the same person. This may not help you but I swear this book will help you think clearer. Please, atleast look at it.
Why keep getting back together if all your going to do is break up a few days, weeks or even months later. Why keep doing this to yourself. It's obviously just not working. Now you need to know why. This is why you need to read this book! It's AMAZING!!!
2006-10-25 22:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋