im a little confused. this guy, andrew, i think he likes me. so my friend kayla was gonna ask him for me(i cant talk to guys about that stuff, im waaaay 2 shy, and i have no idea why....) and so here's what she said: "hey andrew, u and kristie r going out? aww thats sweet!" and i dont really think it worked, and it only ended up embarrassing me and andrew...and everyone in class heard it cuz she said it REALLY loud..... so if u were kayla, and u were supposed to ask andrew what would u do? or if u were me, then what would u do? need some major help w.this one! i've asked sooo many questions about this guy and i cant seem to find the answer that really seems to help....
so if u think u can help me , pleaz respond!
2006-10-25 15:02:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try and think how you would be comfortable in this situation. What would make it ok for you to talk about it or hear others talk about it?
Kayla i think was just trying to make it easier for him to be more upfront about how he feels about you. I think she said it this wasy to ease the tension of the both of you knowing the other likes you. Unfortunately it didn't work quite the way planned. But i'd have to say you are right with your feelings here and he must like you otherwise he would not be so embarrassed.
How do you think you'd react if he were to come up and ask you out? If you are as shy as you say i believe this would be quite difficult for you... So then my advice would be this, you have to find a way of communicating with him that you feel ok to express your feelings and the same with him. I'd suggest physical contact is the best option, like pushing and hitting him. Yes this sounds weird but you can exert energy on this instead of the emotion and it will definitely get his attention. No matter the situation if a girl comes up and gets the guys attention without saying anything then he will know how she feels.
Please think carefully about how this works though, by using physical contact he will notice and think of you more. And this is easy to do without making a scene as your friend Kayla did. Even as you walk past him or behind him a small tap and a smile will go very far. As long as you are particularly doing it to get his attention, and not really when he is already talking to you etc. then he will get the idea.
Another very good tactic of body language without contact is the distance you stand away from him during a conversation. Obviously you get to talk to him at some points in time and it is these times that you should whisper something to him in order to bring him closer and also in general stand much closer to him than you would for anyone else, which signifies that you can be more personal with him despite the fact you are not talking about anything personal.
And finally after doing the first two i described you should then begin to talk to him about personal things. Mainly to know more about him and to allow him to know more about you. This would automatically bring you closer. I'm mostly talking about stuff like feelings when you come across a subject that he likes to talk a lot about.
Please give all of this some time though! But I do very strongly encourage you to begin taking the first steps towards this. Once you do, you may find that as you are seemingly preogressing it is becoming easier. By all means add to all of this and get firends to help but the more you do yourself the better you will feel (and the less likely your friends will start to like this guy as well haha)!
Good luck :)
(and sorry for the long winded reply)
2006-10-25 15:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 02:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him urself be bold and just do it you'll feel better that u did it urself and not through another person
2006-10-25 15:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by JackieJaguar08 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe send him an email?
2006-10-25 15:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by Maria18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋