2006-10-25 14:57:00 · 10 answers · asked by cert_pharm_tech21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
focus you energy on other things..... sports....yoga.... photography...music... church, charity etc. do some positive things you've never done before.
2006-10-25 15:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by agata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all right i was in a relation ship with a guy in gorgia and i am in indiania at the time. i tried to keep in tuoch all the time. but i was working 40 pluse hour a week pluse school 5 hour a day. then a friend of the family came by and said thathe knows a guy from work and he was single. what did i do i tried to keep the other guy on the line and keep the new guy to . until on day at work the oher guy called and said that he was buying a new home for us . so i told him that i was seeing another guy he said to do what i thought i should do. i gave him up and tried some thing new that i never thought would be possible and now married to him for 5 yrs. and still in indania and happy . good luck
2006-10-25 22:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by snowsinoctober1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of things that remind you of him. Or at least put them away in a box where you won't come across them. Go out and be with your friends. Distractions are wonderful. If you feel you need to vent, write your thoughts and feelings in a journal. Trust me, down the road you will see he was not worth all the heartache and tears you shed over him. If they find a girlfriend that fast, they were never true to you anyhow.
2006-10-25 22:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to sad songs or movies.
Get out and meet new people.
Travel.
Keep your appearance up...dont get depressed and sloppy.
Go to the gym, exercise alot
Call old friends and go see them
Spend more time with aged relatives for you and them
Don't call him
Don't keep his memorabilia out where you can see it.
Don't visit places that the two of you frequented
Just get out and enjoy stuff you like, such as, nature; movies, friends, dancing, photography, or find a NEW hobby. Good Luck
2006-10-25 22:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is ALWAYS hard, but this will only make you stronger ALSO you may not understand why it happened, but down the line when you meet a guy 200% times better, you will realize you ex was nothing but a loser and you will say to yourself "What was I thinking?"
Just hang out with friends a lot more and just keep yourself busy...go out as much as you can just to keep your mind off of him...he is not worth your time!! :)
2006-10-25 22:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by PeachN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be very hard. you are going to think about him a whole lot. sometimes you might blame yourself for things ending up the way they did. but you have to know that its not your fault. But now that its over, its over. there are millions and millions of guys out there and there will be tons of guys who are just like your ex, but even better. so loosing him was really his loss...not yours. just keep positove and know that something good will come out of all this. maybee you will even find your true soulmate
2006-10-25 22:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by spicyangel8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself blessed. This man's emotion is like the tide, in then out. Wait for a man that needs your heart.
2006-10-25 22:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best cure is finding yourself a boyfriend,that will help.
2006-10-25 22:00:58 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just break tradition go to a guy you like and ask him out.
He'd be flattered. You can't loose.
2006-10-25 21:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey get that guy you like go for him and have a blast.
2006-10-25 22:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋