Whats the best way to see if a new sexual partner is free from STD's? And there are a lot more things than just wearing a condom and having intercouse!
2006-10-25 14:52:24 · 9 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can suggest going to a free clinic together as a couple and get tested so that way you both know if either one of you has something or not. if she they say no or refuse to go then i would suggest protecting yourself and get to know the person before doing anything with them because you never know if they are hiding something from you. good luck and be safe.
2006-10-25 14:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say first of all you need to know each other well enough to have built up the trust to know they are telling the truth, and to know that it's going to be monogamous. By that point you should be able to have the conversation before things get too far. I have been single for a year and the last time I was tested for stuff was right before my previous partner, we both got tested and came out clean. But I will still get tested again before sleeping with the next person, and insist that they do too.
2006-10-25 22:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when I became single again, I went and got a full std screening. When I started dating my current boyfriend, I told him that I had been checked out and would need him to do the same if he wanted to have sex without condoms. He went immediately, even though he was sure he was clean. He was, but I wanted to know for sure. I even told him that it was not that I thought he was lying about it, but you do not always know if you have an std. My opinion is that if you are intimate enough with someone to have sex with them, you should feel comfortable enough to talk about it first.
2006-10-25 22:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you married to this person? If not, wait until you are. You still need to know his or her sexual history. You both should be tested to assure the other. To answer your question directly, just do it. It is a simple question.
2006-10-25 21:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Straight up!!!GO to the clinic together, look at the utensil, continue to protect yourself, ohh course.
2006-10-25 21:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by amber d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they are going to be honest anyway? Just be careful.
2006-10-25 21:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a blood test done.
2006-10-25 21:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by TheSkeptic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say "i want ur papers before we can bring the house down. sorry hon, but i wanna be sure"
2006-10-25 21:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can"t ask him these questions don't sleep with him !
2006-10-25 21:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋