I don't trust him. There has been history with me not trusting him but we have been together for 3 years! I love him so much and want to trust him again. But now he says he can't trust me cause i don't trust him and always look in his phone.... how can i make him trust me again. He wants to trust me again he said but it is hard.... what do i do? we are meant to be ihave that feeling!
2006-10-25 14:22:42 · 10 answers · asked by Aimee A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is no trust there is no relationship ...it will never work. Can you come to terms with why you don't trust him and tell him honestly why you don't trust him? You need to do this and then see if there is anything left to salvage of the relationship.I have been where you are and I chose to move on it was best for me. I am happy now and the ex is still lying to every one about every thing. Still can't trust him to even be a friend.
~~good luck~~
2006-10-26 14:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Set back & look at your self.
Are you a trusting person?
Has he done things that you feel are wrong, or do you just think that.
Are there others in your life that you trust?
Are there people that you don't trust?
Think about what makes you trust people & when you don't trust them.
This may just a waste ot time or you may gain an insight into your self. This could help to see your boyfriend in a better light.
The choices are. Are you an untrusting person or is your boy friend not to be trusted. Pick one & go with it.
2006-10-25 14:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys cant trust each other then u really shouldnt be together. a relationship is based on trust. u can try to trust each other again by not lieing to each other, and if u need to look in his phone then there shouldnt be any problems because he shouldnt have anything to hide. if all u want to do is look in his phone thats something really small and can be accomidating. as long as ur not logging the computer and following him everywhere he goes and at least not ask to see the phone every hour
2006-10-25 14:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by scion_xb_girly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you dont trust him, there probably a reason why. If your looking through his phone, then I'm thinking you have a good reason to. If he's ever done anything to decieve you, and if he's done something behind your back, its not YOUR job to fix it, its his job. You have to trust your instincts and follow your intution. Yes, people make mistakes, but I dont see what he wants you to do if YOUR the one who doesn't trust HIM...I really wouldn't worry too much over it...if it was meant to be, it will happen, if not, you're better off anyway!
2006-10-25 14:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he gave you a reason for you to not trust him, then he is pulling the classic "I can't trust you because you don't trust me, soooo...it MUST be your fault". Give it up, move on. It isn't worth it without trust.
2006-10-25 14:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are checkin' his phone all the time and stuff like that, then you don't trust him....and if he doesn't trust you...then he doesn't... I know this sucks, but if there is no trust....thats no good for a relationship...
2006-10-25 14:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't trust him then why do you want to be with him only you can answer this question good luck PS: if the pros out weigh the cons then stay
2006-10-25 14:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he do something for you not trusting him?
2006-10-25 14:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok........try to trust him......if u relly want to be with him then clear ur past and start over.......dont relly do the things u did wen he dint trust u
2006-10-25 14:25:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems hard
2006-10-25 14:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋