She's always wanted me to write her a sexy letter/email but I'm not really that good at it. Is there any good websites on the subject so I can get inspiration? Or has anyone got advice for me?
2006-10-25 14:20:54 · 14 answers · asked by Proinsias 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It should come to you in minutes. Let yourself go and don't think about what sounds wrong or right just say it. Honesty is very sexy. I suggest you be honest on what of hers turns you on (try to focus on physical). Be straight forward and don't have any breaks in thought. Focus on one subject, finish it, then move on. It should be short and yet everything you want to tell her. DOn't be afraid to get dirty. GOod luck....
2006-10-25 14:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.
Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.
She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!
Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!
2016-07-20 01:04:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-22 01:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking strangers to give you some junk to put in a filthy letter, even you think its weird. Men like action/visual stimulation, send him a picture of you standing in the nude, not a bunch of filthy words. If the sex is not happening in the home, what makes you thing writing him a sex letter will spice things up. If anything roll play. I like that website@Crazy_ol
2016-05-22 14:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you could write how beautiful she is, how nice she is and why she's the one. This worked with me but only for a little while. If you've known her for a while, maybe you can invite her over to dinner or lunch, and maybe if you're lucky, she might offer you sex!
2006-10-25 20:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Liam Somerfield 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more explicit the better. Be straightforward and direct. Flowery language will only make her lose respect for you as a man.
Medical terminology is a plus. Girls are turned off by slang and euphemisms.
If you are still having problems, you might just copy a letter out of the back of Penthouse and change the names up.
2006-10-25 14:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Homer J 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
letters like that only come from the one writing it....let it come from you, don't let others put words in your mouth for you, otherwise it wouldn't be from you. Your gf should be enough inspiration.
2006-10-25 14:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 02:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how much you miss her, How incrediably sexy she would look in a black or red nightie........Just make it short and sweet, long enough to let her know that you want her bad!!!!!
2006-10-25 14:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Christine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you like about her?(hair,smell,personality,looks)Why do you think she's the one for you?(the way she makes you heart skip a beat) good luck
2006-10-25 14:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by shan_997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋