2006-10-25 14:15:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What could be wrong about it? As long as you know what you're doing and you don't let him take advantage of you. You're a big girl now.
A lot of guys have figured out how to sweet talk younger girls by telling them how mature they are just to get them into bed, but if you can really connect with this guy then there is certainly nothing wrong with dating an older man. From my experience, I just couldn't relate with anyone my age. They all seemed immature, boring, and really short sighted. An older man has his career, knows what he wants, and can make time for you. Younger guys are still obsessed with the party scene and "life experience," at least the majority of them are.
My husband is 35 and I am 22. A 13 year difference. Kinda makes me feel weird that when I was graduating from kindergarten he was graduating from high school. But we fell in love and have been going strong for three years. So don't let an age difference freak you out.
2006-10-25 14:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by tiger_lilly33186 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not about whether it's wrong. It probably isn't a good idea because a secure 36 year old guy would want someone with more life experience. This guy seems very immature but since he's lived 36 years, he's had way more experiences and way more sex. Not a good match for you at 18.
2006-10-25 14:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by Maia B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age is just a number girl. When I was 19 I dated, and later married a 32 year old man. We were married 8 years. We divorced because he was an alcholic but that didn't have anything to do with his age. Now I am 30 and with a 26 year old and its working quite well too. You wont know til u try
2006-10-25 15:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by skysmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if u like him a lot and is into him. Well I think he is a lttle to old but u know what it is okay. U just need to be with someone u like. But don't be surprised if he gets kinda obsesive cause i have done that before he will blow up your cell phone and email and everything! but it depends on the guy he may or may not i am just sayin. And also depending on wther or not u are experienced he may or maynoe try to get u into having sex right now at ur age and u might not be ready for that so just be careful when it comes to older men!
2006-10-25 14:19:56 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My SO is 38, while I am 25. We do not, and never did, have a problem with each other's ages. It all depends on what type of person each of you are, and what you are looking for in this period of your life. Does he want something serious with you? Does he have a previous family (divorced)? Is he on the rebound or in a mid-life crisis? You need to know these things before you make a decision to bring this man closer into your life. As long as you are both on the same page, age is merely a number.
2006-10-25 14:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by linnaete 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 26, and I am sorta dating a 28yo woman right now. She said that in the past she is a "jerk magnet", and I told her why: a good man who respects you (respect = love, in my humble opinion) will be nervous when he first dates you. This is because he sees you as more than a piece of *** and is scared to screw it up. A jerk goes along with you because you're just another girl. It sounds like your past relationships have been with men who look at you as just another girl, being that they move on so easily. Look for the nervous cute guy who does nice things for you while trying to get to know you. He's a keeper, getting to know you = gettin attached.
2016-05-22 14:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you've probably heard the cliche age is just a number, but you should make a list of reasons why you like this guy and what would complicate things if the complications outweigh your list of positive things then i would say end the relationship there are many guys who are 18, 19, 20... who act really mature too.
after all we don't choose who we love it finds us. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-25 14:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by lovemonkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a little messed up, considering hes old enough to be ur dad. plus, going out wit ppl will sometimes lead to marriage, and think about it, ull b married to an old guy in the future while ur still young. stick to ur own age group.
2006-10-25 14:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
For love or for fun if you want to date him just do it, you can always break up the relationship later if you don't like him anymore and if the relationship works then what the heck!!!
2006-10-25 14:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres only 1 thing an 18yo girl is going to have that is usful to a 36yo guy...If thats what you want your purpose to be in his life, then have at it...Otherwise...uhhhh, whats the question again????
2006-10-25 14:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋