I like this guy at school. I have two classes with him and we don't talk at all. I want him to know I like him by body language, but I don't want to look like an idiot. I think he likes me but I'm not sure. I catch eyes with him but I turn away cause it feels akward. I say hi to him but I'm known for saying hi to everyone. I smile and blush at him but I try to hide it. How can I show him I like him by body language without the whole school knowing? How can I tell if he likes me by his body language?
Sorry about this being so long! lol
2006-10-25 14:13:26 · 15 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your Wicca/Pagan (either one, it doesn't matter to me) you can answer my other question that's out plz! Thanks!
2006-10-25 14:16:33 · update #1
Guys are dumb when it comes to body language. We do not think the way you girls do about little motions that should be big hints. You'll have to try more obvious things. Request to do group projects with him, talk often about something he can talk about, ask him about himself. Try to even talk with his friends and let them know you are intrested. Until he knows you could be interested, he might not try anything.
And just so you know, if you go with him, people will find out after about a week, anyways, so you should not try hard to conceal it from your peers.
BTW, This is actually one of the shorter questions I've seen (lol).
Good luck with him!
2006-10-25 14:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by teh_popezorz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. Why body language? Try talking intelligently to him...find a common interest, if you have one, and become a "friend". We all need more friends, and when that happens, other stuff happens naturally. And as for not wanting to look like an idiot, all things worth having involve risks. " It's better to have loved and lost, then never having loved at all"
2006-10-25 21:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your never gonna get anywhere on body language alone and you should be proud of your love for another person ( or lust) so stop worrying about other people. But if you are dead set against just talking to the guy, it might help to lightly touch his arm or shoulder when you are telling him something to get his attention or wear a cute outfit with good smelling perfume and walk by him so he gets a whiff of it. Smile warmly, even wink ( if you dare) or give him a compliment. Hold his gaze and you will be able to tell if hes interested. goodluck
2006-10-25 21:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flash you eyelashes a lot, smile at him and give him a lot of attention! Who cares if the whole school knows you like him? Just be confident! Or forget about the whole body language thing all together and just ask him out?
2006-10-25 21:20:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tropicalboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got the basics of the body language down. You can add "grooming" to it - twisting your hair around your finger, etc.
For his body language, he'll likely be doing something similar - looking, blushing, glancing away, etc.
But one way or the other, you'll need to talk to him - even if it's just chatting over lunch. Guys - especially teenagers - are notoriously dense when it comes down to realizing that a girl's interested.
2006-10-26 13:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by ArcadianStormcrow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a great one that I saw last week. The girl that did it was so cool about it. Sounds like you, real happy says hi to everyone, great smile, nice girl.
Here is what she did. While walking in the hall way she walked right up to the guy held out her hand and said "Hi, I'm Amy and I really like you" They shook hands and then she just kept walking.
How cool was that!
Save her the embarrassment of trying to flaunt her body around him.
Kewl!
2006-10-25 21:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by ferretcoach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, in High School, body language probably wont work. Guys arent quite up to that level yet unless you are stripping right in front of them. Try making small talk with him, or find out how to meet up with him outisde of school.
2006-10-25 21:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Brian M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sounds like you are doing the body language already. some guys/ most guys/ all guys don't catch hints very well especially in high school, and most of the time getting him to know means having to let the whole school know, when i was in high school i was really clueless
2006-10-25 21:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by go away 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now is your body language saying you can't touch this,sometimes it's best to talk.
2006-10-25 21:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok........looking and turning is a classic...... if he looks at u and smiles then he might like you or hes trying to be nice....... there relly isnt a body language that u can do....... juss try to talk to him more......... and if he looks at u, dont turn away......stay lookin and see who cracks first..... if he does then he does like u and try to go naturally.......a guy would not relly ask a girl out if he doesnt know her.......so try to talk to him and get relly close
2006-10-25 21:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋