Its common knowledge that the nice guys always finish last. On account Im tired of finishing last, getting dumped for stupid reasons, always being predictable *nice guy*, I need some help. I'm in need of some tips on how to be an asshole. You might be saying "well thats easy, just think about it" Well its not easy for me, Im too ******* nice :P. Any tips or suggestions would be appreciated. Make me an asshole plz.
2006-10-25 14:07:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't have to be an asshole. Girls do like a challenge, so show some attention, then don't. Always keep them guessing about your true feelings. It will drive girls crazy, but you don't have to be an asshole to do it.
2006-10-25 14:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't go there. Nice guys don't finish last. In the real world women who are mature, nice and are serious want a nice guy. You may just be too young to be having long term relationships. There are things we all go through and learn from before the right one comes along.There is someone out ther that is perfect for you and if you go around pretending to be something you're not, you will miss her. So, just keep being who you are and if that isn't good enough then the girl doesn't deserve the nice guy that you are. My husband is one of the nice guys and I wouldn't trade him for the world. 18 years of ups and downs and we''re still best friends. So, be yourself and get that nice girl, she'll be there when the time is right.
2006-10-25 21:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assholishness (yes that's a real term) is not just a set of superficial actions. Much like being a nice guy, it is a state of mind. You must place yourself before all others and occasionally enjoy the suffering of another even if it doesn't improve your lot in the slightest.
However, becoming a true master of the asshole technique is a major decision and while it may get you laid...
No one really likes an asshole
2006-10-25 21:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by DonSoze 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be an asshole. Be yourself. You'll find the right young lady. IF you have to be a dick, the girls you're interested are around assholes and seem to like it..You deserve better honey. Never go backwards for anyone. Good luck.
2006-10-25 21:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Keymay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a jerk is not gonna get you anywhere.
You'll end up feeling like absolute crap by hurting the girls.
Plus, you won't attract the girls you REALLY want.
You'll just end up pretending to be someone you're not for the rest of your life if you continue that.
Just be yourself!
Don't live a lie.
2006-10-25 21:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do that. Have you tried to hang out with nice people?
I would give anything to have a nice guy in my life. You see I seem to always get with A**HOLE types.
Like after a relationship that I let the guy come & go, didn't try to make him spend time with the family. Now after 24+ years he is with somebody else.
Just hang in there you'll get the girl that's as nice as you are.
2006-10-25 21:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish best. There are too many assholes, don't become one too. Please look at yourself and see your good qualities and do not try to be someone you are not to be "accepted" or what you envision as being "liked" better.
2006-10-25 21:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Goldenrain 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you'll get there when you get dumped by someone you REALLY like. Especially if that person dumps you for a fellow *** hole.It isn't easy to be one, but everyone is one at one point or another.
2006-10-25 21:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by kwenzini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hitting on other girls while your g/f write there just crap like that but y would you what to be an asshole cuz its hard to find guys like u your probably just shooting for the wrong girls
2006-10-25 21:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by batman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that the flashy, noisy, obnoxious and just plain rude seem to get all the attention. It's, also, true that they tend to be the ones who end up alone later in life. It's up to you to decide what's more important, I suppose.
2006-10-25 21:09:44 · answer #10 · answered by dingobluefoot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋