My boyfriend & I have been dating for two years and have a wonderful relationship... Except for the lack of our sex life! He says that he is so comfortable in our relationship, that sex isn't important. I agree that 50 years from now our communication skills are going to be extremely important & I am blessed to have them with such a wonderful man! However, I am an energetic 25 year old, I want to have some FUN!!! We are very much in love & I think I believe that it has nothing to do with me. I have been told in the past that I am a bit of a sex-a-holic, but now I have gotten used to going without. Has anyone else had this problem & if so what did you do about it?!?
2006-10-25 14:03:44 · 9 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him find out what he likes and how often he likes sex.
2006-10-25 14:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone in a long term relationship has been through this. You just have to make it exciting again. Bring home some porn, or new sex toys, or take him with you to a sex store with you. Give him a BJ somewhere unexpected. Buy some new fancy panties and tell him you need help taking them off. Don't feel bad you want sex!!! I am sure if you put a little effort into it (don't feel embarrassed either) it will pay off immensely.
2006-10-25 21:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Michaela 4120 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid nothing will change his low sex drive. Some people just don't like sex as much as others. So, you must decide what is most important to you - sex, or an otherwise wonderful relationship. Sorry not to be able to give you hope!
2006-10-26 02:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great bf you got! First, be thankful for such a great guy, you 're not gonna find a second one:)
Secondly, tell him how you feel, cause since you two understand eachother so well, it's nothing bad to talk about, tell him how you feel, and ask him how he feels! I'm sure you'll work things out, Good Luck!
2006-10-25 21:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♀★sMiLe☆♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend says sex isnt important something is wrong. it fosters a healthy relationship, reduces stress and feels awesome too, tell him when u need it and why, if only for sex tell him, if you want intimacy, altogether different HE NEEDS TO BE THERE AND MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A WOMAN
2006-10-25 21:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by shawn k 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honestly just start playing with yourself in front of him, 9 times out of 10 he'll take that as a hint and jump on it
2006-10-25 21:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy in his 20's that doesn't want to hump you?
Gay.
2006-10-25 23:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't good for a younger couple. So maybe see if he will go to Dr. !!!!!
2006-10-25 21:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try different things with your partner....spice it up dress sexy
2006-10-25 21:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋