I am assuming they would have to be Christian men, either way it would be nice to hear from some men that respect their wives and their sexual relationship with them.
2006-10-25 14:03:06 · 23 answers · asked by Cjs 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
what for? i love my wife on monday when she first begins our workweek. on tuesdays when she wears something new. on wednesdays when we have time together and talk about anything and everything. on thursdays when she calls her friends in india. on fridays, when we go out for the fun of it. on saturdays when we hang out at a bookstore. and sundays when we get spiritual. she is my other women. i love her so much
2006-10-25 14:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to burst your bubble, but there are married Christian men (and single Christian men) who deal with lust on a daily basis. That doesn't necessarily mean that they don't love and respect their wives and their sexual relationship, but with the availability of internet porn and the way some women present themselves, it can be a struggle.That's not offered as any excuse for innappropriate behavior, but it might give you some perspective.
2006-10-25 21:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by Paulie D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The temptation to look at other women is natural to all men (probably even gays). So if by lust you mean fix your eyes upon, then I am afraid the answer likely to be no.
There are some men like myself who were taught when we were young to curb the tempation and turn eyes away before those hormones start bubbling upward. Particulary important is to avoid pornography. I certainly do not advocate the Burqua, but a little more modesty out there would sure help me out.
I have had a happy monogomous relationship for 26+ years and counting, but it takes discipline.
2006-10-25 21:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by asimplegmr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be kidding, what about Jewish men or Islamic men or the men who worhsiped the pagan gods of Mesopotamia for that matter? Marriage is not a Christian invention.
If a man did not lust after women he would not be married in the first place. Anyway, marriage is not about lusting, you can lust all you want it, it is the decision you make and the choices you follow that determine if you are faithful.
Respecting their wives does not mean not looking, it means enjoying your sexual relationship with your wife/husband and experimenting with their spouse only.
2006-10-25 21:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by jay5002 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have noticed that majority of people who answer this question are women i know my man ain't lusting the truth is lust is something that happens within ones head and thoughts and hate it or love you cant control another persons thoughts. I believe we all at some point or another lust but i think its cool if you put the lustful feelings in check and realize whats real and whats not.
2006-10-25 21:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Eisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to begin with, I'm not Christian. I respect my wife. We've been married for over 30 years. We don't have a sexual relationship. So, I lust over a dvd and rosey.
2006-10-25 21:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by flip4449 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! How about a man that does not think about sex=lust. Fights the temptation when it occurs. I am not a homosexual, sex is not part of my life and I'm very happy. I am not a priest. I enjoy the beauty of woman in they're faces and personality. I am living proof at 41 yrs that one can get by without the disease of lust. I venerate the purity of the Mother of Christ....Mary and She is the one who helps me keep pure and chaste.
2006-10-25 21:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by injesu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian and I do not lust after other woman. Why should I? For one thing I have God in my life and for another I have my wife. I am still human and see beauty in woman, I just don't lust after them. Guess you can believe it or not but it is true.
2006-10-25 22:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by morris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I totally respect my wife and our sexual relationship. That being said, that doesn't mean that I don't like to look at the female form the way God made it.
If God didn't want men to look at and desire women, He wouldn't have created them so desireable.
2006-10-25 21:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by mesquitemachine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even Jimmy Carter lusted in his heart, doubt you're going to get many honest answers to that question (especially with wife standing over shoulder and giving the next answer, that is funny, funny!!!)
2006-10-25 21:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋