how come when a guy sleeps with or hooks up with a few girls...he is like god. but if a girl does the same thing shes an automatic $lut and its a terrible thing...i understand doing it too much is bad and $lutty..but cant girls have fun too?
2006-10-25 14:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by Ally 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because the world loves a double standard and that's just the way it is
2006-10-25 14:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Homer J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem with that term is everyone has a different meaning for it. Some will say you are if you've slept with more than 5. Some will say if you've slept with someone just to sleep with someone without regard to any rules or standards of taste then you are, here's my take.
Accept it people women like sex. Why is a guy who would sleep with 28 girls a stud but if they were a woman they'd be regarded as filthy. I've slept with....okay i lost count..maybe 70 women...around that much at least...anyway.
I've always regarded someone as a sl*t if they sleep with someone under false pretenses regardless of whether they are male or female. If you tell someone they are your one and only and you cheapen their feelings and your honor by cheating THEN you're a sl*t male or female.
The perception of gender roles has changed over the centuries. In the Victorian era women were totally subservient, then in the 1920's things started changing by the 60's there was no turning back and now in the new century where women have careers and make their own rules there is less sexual repression amongst women now more than ever but the old school stereotypes are hard to delete from our collective social stigmas.
You should however realize that such liberation has a demand and it is responsibility. You need to consider birth control as in getting your tubes tied and for all sexually active women out there don't rely on the guy be aggressive in making sure that you grab hold of that issue. Use birth control and keep condoms in every room of the house and in your purse or pocket just in case.
Finally if you are having sex but find it unfullfilling then you may suffer from nymphomania which is a condition in which you can never be satisfied emotionally by sex not a condition where you are addicted to it. True nymphomaniacs are never satisfied and seldom ever climax. Also people with borderline personality disorder will be highly promiscous and suffer symptoms similar to nymphomania.
and that's all i have to say on the subject...
2006-10-25 14:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are so right. In My church A guy gets a girl pregnant she was condemned and had to be re baptized. he got away with it and still singing in the choir. This is a man's world baby and these are the rules. They are changing slowly. Just remember you can get pregnant so be careful its easier for a guy than a girl. In the old days the women didn't work so they had to marry a guy that could take care of them so the Fathers would get pist if the girls played around and got pregnant before marriage because it would be hard for them to get a husband and the father had to take care of them. So the men in society made the rules and that's the way it is til this day in most societies around the world.
2006-10-25 14:11:28 · answer #3 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just the way things are, things between women and men are not the same, and they are not fair. I mean think about it this way, back then women were supposed to be pure and virginal [Starting with Eve, or Virgin Mary] this carried on through the years that women should be polite and pure, while their husbands are pigs. It's just the way things are. I mean have you seen the show Sex and the City, those four women had tons of sex, but they didn't make it extremely obvious, in fact they were ladies everywhere BUT the bedroom. Remember the world only sees what you want them to...
2006-10-25 14:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason we get props for getting some is because it is so difficult. We are always being rejected, so if one of us is getting some its like we want to figure out what he's doing so that we can hopefully do the same thing and get laid ourselves. The reason girls are called that when they get some is because its usually by their jealous friends who arent getting any at the time since girls can get it whenever they want (even you girls who think you cant...trust me, you can...)
2006-10-25 14:12:21 · answer #5 · answered by Savant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a double standard --- we are a bunch of jerks (guys are) some are better than others
do what you feel is right and let the nay sayers be jerks
there is no such thing as too much sex and $lut is just a name
2006-10-25 14:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is still a male dominated world, it is OK for them to sow their wild oats but they dont want a girl like that to take home to mummy and daddy or marry. Just the way it is
2006-10-25 14:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because men have been programed from birth that doing alot of weman will make them men and they all sit around praising each other and farting while weman are thought that they will become whores if we give it out (other than to our husbands)that is why men are assholes(most)i think its nasty for anyone to be too lose but yeah,i know what you are saying.sucks!!
2006-10-25 14:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only slutty to woman sleeping around because all u girl have to do is lie bk and enjoy, use men have to rock the boat hard so thats why we get praised and also men get praise by their mates and mens mates talk about sex and penis size and wanking compititions and porn where as woman rather keep private feelings to themselves so thats why its such a shocker
2006-10-25 14:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ppl expect guys to sleep around but they dont take into consideration that for guys to sleep around chicks have to as well
2006-10-25 14:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋