My ex bf and I brokeup 4 months ago and he dumped me. And today he gave me this look like I'm still in love with you. And he was giving me puppy dog eyes. And I think he was tryin' to make me jealous by asking his ex gf to kiss him. And I sit across from him. He always looks at me when I smile and he looks upset when he sees me laugh or smile. Why?
2006-10-25 13:49:18 · 8 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have an ex girlfriend who does this same thing so i can tell you what it is.
Sadistic false ego.
He wants to see you jealous because it just pumps him full of a bogus ego. He wants to see you sad because he wants you to be miserable without him he needs to feed on your pain. He wants to be the one that "you never got over".
The reason he does this is beause it's the only justification he can find for the emptiness inside him. He has too much anger and hate which he subconsciously knows is due to his own fault but consciously he directs it at you. He left you and now he realizes that was wrong but his false pride won't let him admit he made a mistake.
The best thing you can do is ignore him and above all be happy. Be beautiful, laugh, be sociable, just live your life as if you never met him. He doesn't even merit your attention and if he's anything like the ex-girlfriend i had who did the same thing to me then it will teach him a valuable lesson.
He is toying with you to sustain his own fragile ego.
Ignore him because you are superior to him in every way. Rise above his shallow state and fly beyond his influence.
Do this and you've earned his animosity because he will eventually hate what you represent and that which you represent is what he could have had if he had only acted like a real man.
Got a lot of love for you right now and i respect what you're going through because i've been there.
Keep me posted.
2006-10-25 14:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by sprydle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is tryin to make u jealous. He is still in love with u because that is just crazy if he is not. He is though. He is just playin this jealousy game until u say somethin about it!
2006-10-25 13:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he is jealous that your happy. I think he wants you to be sad or something. It's happened to me before. I finally told the guy just to stop looking at me and that I'm not going to get upset because he doesn't like me anymore. You need to tell him something, if you want.
Hope I Helped!
Krissi
2006-10-25 13:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's the type of man who will leave you. Why the hell would you care if he still had feelings for you. He'll just dump you again. Next time, he'll do it when you are pregnant with his child.
2006-10-25 13:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to play mind games with you don't fall for it and ignore him and move on good luck
2006-10-25 13:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just forget about him and move on
2006-10-25 13:53:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
HES A PHYCOPATH
2006-10-25 13:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's just ******* with you. forget him.
2006-10-25 13:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋