theres this girl at school named Meli i really like her and i think maybe she might like me. i sit next to her in english class and we always sit in pairs in english so i get to talk to her every day. the only thing is that im an 11th grader and she is a 12th grader. shes 17 im 16 but i really like her and i dont know wat to do? shes pretty. shes a cutie wit a bootie. the only thing is that im afraid to ask her because if she says no. but i have a feeling she wont say no should i ask my friend to hook us up or do it myself? i like her but im afraid to comitment. help out a brother?
2006-10-25 13:48:16 · 10 answers · asked by hondamuffler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how about you try talking to her directly becuase grls like it but don't be like i like you and stuff becoz if she says no you'll feel like a loser so just like try asking her out in a way that if she says no you don't end up with a damaged self confidence. and if you think she won't say no i say go for it and just be like in between talks how would you feel if i asked you out and stuff like that and the commitment part you need to think about that
2006-10-25 13:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen guy grow some nuts, so what if she says no that's part of life, but I can tell you this for sure if you don't at least try you'll kick your self every day there after wondering. P.S. no just save you time and energy and know matter what you do in life you have best get use to hearing no, it get said every day to some one including me the guy next to me and you, so take it with a grain of salt and be satisfied that at least you know and knowing is half the battle!
2006-10-25 13:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by matt v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not, I repeat, Do not ask your friend to hook you up. I tried to help my friend out like that and i ended up with the girl. Just ask her out for a dessert or a movie or something safe. After that you will know for sure. cause you will do a lot of talking around the date and yes you must try to kiss her at the end of the date. but don't try to force anything. If you lean in and she moves away. relax and enjoy the rest of the date, thank her for letting you take her out and ask if you can call her later. Give it a shot
2006-10-25 13:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step up to the plate. Ask her out to a Halloween party. Make sure she's not with someone else and just being human and nice to you, if you make sure of this first you will not have to go on tripping'. If she is single ask her, if she says yes to the date, does not mean that she is yours. Try to start developing your emotional senses, it is one of the most important lesson in life, if not the number one. It will bring bliss and hell. You cannot have one without the other. Remember to always keep God first and your own integrity, that's all you really have here on planet earth, all else will unfold as it should.
God bless us all...
2006-10-25 13:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get your friend involved. BE A MAN ;)
you should ask her out, confidence is a real winner to get the ladies, plus if her and your friend start talking... who knows there that will lead them ;)
2006-10-25 13:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by josh/julie m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask her yourself, pretty soon highschool will be gone and you'll have to learn how to pick up women, cause if you ask your friends then women will think your a loser. Start now.
2006-10-25 13:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by krissy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
show your feelings by giving her small things she likes, like chocolate or other which i know you knew being a seatmate. show your thoughtfulness & concern in that way she will probably get your message.
2006-10-25 13:54:30 · answer #7 · answered by red sun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go talk to her, it couldnt hurt. One year of age difference isnt too big of a deal. :)
2006-10-25 13:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by musicgurl1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask if she wants to do homework together
2006-10-25 13:50:32 · answer #9 · answered by pink9364 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
juck frickin ask her...you 16!!!!!! whatdya gotta lose???????
2006-10-25 13:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋