How would a 35 to 40 year old feel about dating a 19-21 year old? Especially if it is the younger man that is trying to pursue you!
2006-10-25 13:36:45 · 6 answers · asked by Brownsuga 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the maturity of the younger pursuant male or female could cause problems, although with help of the older companion this could balance out and end up in a good relationship, and how should you feel? well, how do you feel is up to you, there is nothing wrong with it it might bring a few deceptions and problems or it can work out, there is no difference in a close age relationship, follow your heart, expect the best but be ready for the worst. Good luck!!!
2006-10-25 13:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by woodtigerdp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with men wanting younger women. Perhaps they want to start a family. Here's a thought for you. If you can't beat 'em, join 'em. Consider dating a man 10-15 years younger than you. You will never regret it. It's fun. My husband is 24 and I am 38, and I have never been happier. It can work, but only if you are strong enough to go for what you want and not care too much about what others think about it.
2016-05-22 14:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very flattering, of course, but think about maturity levels and what he may want out of life later. If it's just a roll in the hay, then no problem, but young men don't usually know what they want. Later they may want to have kids, and have to find someone younger. I had younger boyfreinds twice, once for 7 years, but no w my sons are that age, and I just could not see dating someone the same age as my son. It would be weird, I'd feel like a pedophile.
2006-10-25 13:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by orphanannie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate these questions age should not have any thing to do with it as long as the 2 people love each other,100 years ago 15 year olds where allways getting married to older men now its a crime .
2006-10-25 13:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you'd think that the first feeling to come to mind would be flattery; and also the older woman younger man scenario is becoming increasingly popular and accepted.
so, to finish, you should be flattered and also proud.
2006-10-25 13:42:32 · answer #5 · answered by Poukha 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ha been there done done that lets say the sex was great BUT he was way to possesive and immature it doesnt matter to me about age as long as they dont act like babies u know
2006-10-25 13:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by shasha 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋