me and my gf recently broke up AGAIN, we've been together for over a year but she has broke up with me several times, broke my heart several times... We started dating everything was good, we did kind of fall in love fast and furious, she said I was the love of her life, she wanted my kids stuff like that, one day out of nowhere she just dumps me I was overly depressed and mad I did everything right i thought, I treated her like a queen, I would even let her have her ways everytime, we kept in touch for a while and I just poured my heart out to her, and she said she wants to be friends i said no so we stopped talking completely for like a month then all of a sudden she starts calling again asking me to not give up on "us".. I said yes lets get back together, well she again suddenly broke up with me, I treated this girl like no other i was super thoughtful i always did the little things she was the exact opposite she is the opposite of me, well ive kept in touch....
2006-10-25 13:31:47 · 14 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everytime I talk to her I tell her that im going to win her back, and that I love her and all that stuff, she even has said that she knows we'll be together and she said that she aint ready for a relationship but its on me if im willing to wait... She has hurt me tremendously, I love her to death, I have it set in my mind that I will never love anyone else like her but im so sick of this BS I think about her constantly and im at a desperation point I just want to forget her and get her out of my life but that is so hard, what should and what can i do about my situation??
2006-10-25 13:32:08 · update #1
Dude,
Get her out of your head, i know its easier said than done but you are falling into that old situation.
"I did everything right i thought, I treated her like a queen, I would even let her have her ways everytime"
Strike one.
Strike two is that at your age you are looking for a "girlfriend"...what the hell for?
You are a total pu**y (no offense but you NEED to hear this).
Go here now http://blowmeuptom.com/
and click on the< listen live now> in the top right corner. .. be patient thru the first intro until the radio show starts..
Sit back and listen to guys like you calling and just listen to the answers of the guys.
Get going.
2006-10-25 13:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy!? Forget about her or start dating again... There is no man or woman that should put anyone in pain... There is nobody to make your life great but you first. Be a good man and everything will come at the right time for you. Don't let her control you. She is just keeping you on a short leash while she can go out have any kind of fun. Don't be fooled.
2006-10-25 13:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are so many women out there waiting for a guy like you to come along. Just keep busy. Don't allow yourself any idle time for a while or you will just sit and think about " what would have been", or "how can I get her back" and it will drive you crazy. Get around happy people, laugh, relax a little. And for future advice when you start dating again, take it a little slower. Just go on casual dates to have fun, not to find a long term relationship just yet. I wish you the best!!
2006-10-25 13:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by chickmomma5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you do...you breathe, you get up in the morning, brush your hair, wash your face and hands, and get on with life. A day at a time. And a day at a time, no matter what she says about somedays....you let go. It hurts like hell. And it will hurt that way for a long time. But every day it will hurt a bit less. Until one day, when you wake up in the morning, it doesn't hurt at all anymore. And you get life back. Let go dear. Even a little every day, but let go. And start living your life again. It will be ok. Not right away, but eventually it will be ok.
2006-10-25 14:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by the witch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, First can I say that there are plenty of other girls out there that would love to treated like a queen(including myself) You need to stop wasting your time on someone who takes you for granted. Stop excepting her calls, and allowing her to uses you for her convenience. It seems like to me that she calls you just to make sure that you are still there waiting. You should take a step back and focus on you and finding someone who loves you as much as you love her.(trust you will) On a final level I promise that if one day she called you and you told her that you've moved on that she try her hardest to win you back. Some people don't know they have a good thing until someone Else has it. Good Luck Honey
2006-10-25 13:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by krazydavina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sounds like a shity situation but you guys arent a good couple obvisouly the gal your trying to *love* well shes not sure what she wants to do.... I think you should tell her to make up her mind and you make up your mind then if you guys go out again or keep going and she dumps you forget about her she is just being stubborn .....and don't treat her as queen uless thats what you do to all gals???Idk hope this helped
2006-10-25 13:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by sports_gurl_56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel! i'm going through that with this guy i recently broke up with. if she's treating you like this, she doesn't deserve you. there are a lot of girls out there. but i know its hard letting go. i do to with my bf (he && i are friends now). just be her friend, hang out with her, talk to her once in a while. then eventually she'll realize it sooner or later what you have done to her! its great that you did all these things for her. but its not great that she treated you like crap.
2006-10-25 13:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by karen monic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop letting this woman treat you like a doormat!!!
she does this to you because she can,she told you she doesn't want a relationship,you're someone for her to fall back on when she isn't with anyone else,you love her but if you're sick the bs
then think about yourself, and find someone who really wants a good man, obviously this woman is using you,and playing with your emotions,move on because you deserve better.
2006-10-25 13:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by msalb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OoO wow. honey u write alot. lol sweetie, sometimes we gotta let go of what we love most so we can love better. know what i mean!? u shouldnt be tied down to this wierdo cuz she thinks she rules the world. it aint lk that. if you MUST stay with her, then tell the b* "look, i love you , but u cant act lk this to me, blah blah blah...." lay down the line cuz if you dont, she will. and then she'll be controlling u & ur emotions again. good luck hun <3
2006-10-25 13:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Woman. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋