my bf and i just broke up and i cant stand it anymore! he and i really love each other. but i don't think he and i can be together. however, his parents made us break up in the first place because of his grades. and he doesn't have the guts enough to tell them he really wants to be with me. but whats the point. i don't know what to do.
2006-10-25 13:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by karen monic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make up excuses for him. It's over, regardless of the reason.
What to you do?
You get on with your life. He can still be your friend, and maybe soon you'll try dating again.
Until then, have fun. Go out with the girls, eat a whole cheesecake, take an hour-long bath, etc.
YOU DON'T NEED HIM TO BE HAPPY!!!
2006-10-25 13:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go after him i mean if your really and truely are in love with this guy he will understand and get the guts to tell his parents that he will do any to be with you and they cant stop him if the love is strong he will come around soon just tell him how you really feel and if he doesn't do anything then i would say just for get him u can find someone better who will to any thing for your love!! sometimes you kinda have to fight for love if you really love someone!!!Good luck!!!
2006-10-25 20:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dipstick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're spending so much time with each other to start affecting his grades, you really do need to give him some space.
Tell him you still wanna see each other and step back a little and concentrate on schoolwork.
2006-10-25 20:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he doesn't want to be with you enough to stand up to his parents, or to try to get better grades. If so, then you are better off without him.
2006-10-25 20:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School must come first. There will plenty of time for love later. You are trying to destroy his future if you insist on this. If he does bad in school he will grow up to be stupid and have no job.
2006-10-25 20:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple get better grades and see each other in between
2006-10-25 20:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loved you, he'd date you secretly behind their backs, or he would tell them. yes, i too had that dilemma, and i did exactly that. sure they found out, but i showed them that they weren't going to stop me from loving the man i wanted to.
2006-10-25 20:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go until he gets his priorities straight and if it's meant to be he'll definitely come back!
2006-10-25 20:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by thugmisses0084 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do nothing. just get over it.
2006-10-25 20:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋