i hate my life, my dad is so mean to me, i am trying to find a job and he keeps naging me everyday that i owe him money and and saying negative things as if im not trying, i am trying and he keeps naging me and i just wish i was dead, i feel like no one cares for me
2006-10-25 13:27:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
YOU ARE SPECIAL. Stop saying you wish you were dead. This situation is fixable and I'm going to show you how to start. You owe your dad money so the priority is to find ANY job for the time being. Money is money. You can always find something better down the line. Apply at stores in a mall, babysit, fast food, etc.. I see lots of those places looking for help. :-)
With a job you can start paying your dad back a little something to get him off your back. This way your dad will see you have intentions of paying him back. You have to toughen up a bit, sweetie. In life when you borrow money, you have to pay people back. It is what responsible people do. A little something is better than nothing. Try to ignore any negative comments. Hum a song in your mind, go out for a bit, call friend, read a book, you get the picture - right? If you are having feelings of harming yourself, please call this crisis hotline right away:
1-800-422-0009. You can also tell a counselor at school so you can get help. Please be safe. Good luck. xoxo, Zena
2006-10-25 13:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, take some time tomorrow and take a walk or bus or whatever to the nearest children's hospital. Walk down the hall of the Cancer treatment area and see all the people that will probably never make it to graduation or out of the hospital, and many are still little 3,4, 5, 6, year olds, they don't wish they were dead why? because they have no time for self pity and are true to themselves in what they face and you need to grow up and do the same to accept your life, it could be a lot worst, just try telling your story to one of those kids and then listen to their medical problems and you will see quickly how foolish your acting. Hear how they can't play anymore or walk etc...see my point?
2006-10-25 13:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by distalbicept 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should immediately get the thought of death out of your head. Just zone out whenever your dad nags you, politely answer him as honestly as possible, and leave this situation alone. What you should not leave alone, however, is your effort to find a job and pay off the debt that you owe him. If you continue to try to change the situation as much as it sounds like you have been, this situation will be over in no time. Just pay off your dad as soon as you can, then start saving up your money so you can live on your own. Pretty soon, your life will be back on track, so you can meet a guy and start a family (if that is the direction in which you would like to go)
2006-10-25 13:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie. I Know the feeling of put downs, and negative remarks. But you need to keep your head high, and keep looking for that job. Life isnt easy, But once you pass the road blocks everything will be just fine. I know you must get this alot.. "Everything will be okay" .. And it will :) Even though it might seem like it. But seriously.. keep that head up.. And I'm highly sure someone does care for you :D.. So don't wish that.. Someones always thinking of you :).. Take Care - And GL with getting a job.. Best wishes. :)
2006-10-25 16:39:52 · answer #4 · answered by Carly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are in high school, I suggest to talk to a counselor. They usually have good suggestions re: jobs suitable for young teens. Do you baby sit? where is your Mom?
If you feel your Dad is unreasonable, then try to ask him if you 2 can sit down and try to work something out. Do you carry your weight around the house? Like doing dishes, making the bed, vacuuming, etc?
2006-10-25 13:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Da Bomb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Almost everyone at some point in their growing up feels the same way. Your dad has issues and does not know how to deal with them. Don't take it all on. He might be using you as his dumping ground. Hang in there sweetie pie. Just breathe, count to 100, walk away. Hang in there!
2006-10-25 13:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Buckey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont worry, just go at ur own pace and find a steady job, and block out ur dads nagging or talk to him about it. these things happen for a reason, soon enough ur life will take a positive turn, ull find a job, ur dad will be paid back, and everyone will be happy
2006-10-25 13:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by five oh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your dad destroy your life!! Every-body's life has up and Downs, yours too.
This is just your down. As long as you proceed your life the way you think that is best for you, despite whatever your dad says, you will get what should belong to you and everything you expected. It is parent's duty to support their children whenever they need it. It is okay for you to owe your dad money. Just ignore him. One day, he will see your success and worship you - which will be your victory!
2006-10-25 15:49:58 · answer #8 · answered by mimi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you old enough to move out on your own? if you are ' move out when you get that job.
2006-10-25 13:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by deedee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry bout it i mean be glad you got a dad sum ppl dont he'll qiut eventually
2006-10-25 13:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by sexi_pink_panther 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋