what do i do? It's terrible. I live with him and all we do is fight. We say HORRIBLE things to eachother but we love eachother SO much! Its been 3 years and im thinking i wanna see what else is out there. Ive given this relationship plenty of chances an i feel its just not working...but i just cant leave....WHY??? I love him with all my heart!!!! But i dont know if i wanna stay with him! Im very unhappy :-(
2006-10-25 13:22:47 · 7 answers · asked by pinkskies0421 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up. there was this girl in my spanish class, and her and her ex were in the same class, and she was ALWAYS crying, and pissed off, and just unhappy. so finally they broke up, and she found someone better. leave him while u have the chance.
2006-10-25 13:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and start your life over again. If the two of you are meant to be then you'll find each other again. If not, then take your relationship as a lesson learned. Life is too short to be living in a state of unhappiness and be sitting on your hands when you have the ability to change your situation.
2006-10-25 13:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave.
It's not going to get better no matter how badly you want it to.
It will take time to get over him, but you will.... all it will take is seeing that there are other people out there for you.
2006-10-25 13:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The onley thing i can think of if you rilly love him youll want to work it out for whatever it taks and mabe its not you it could be him is he evin tring to work it out and if your both tring you both will work things out...
2006-10-25 13:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'll name you names and block you so that you can not battle again, however I'll deliver you 10 facets for placing up with it. Now cuff me to the mattress and make me snigger like a inexpensive hooker does her traces for her pimp." -Jerry.
2016-09-01 02:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by cerenzia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am 20 and my bf had done the same thing with me for the last 3 years and half and i haven't left him and everyone used to tell me to leave him and until now my sister balmes me for not leaving him.yes i love him and yes he does hurt my feelings by saying mean things like eat s*** or cow (when i am slim) and calling me a b***** from 60 dogs.
first thing:to feel better the MAIN way you have to pray and believe in your self and GOD and please dont start hurting yourself like me ( i used to hit and bruise myself with my own hands to make me feel better but now i stopped and i talk to god every day and belive me he does hear your prayers only when u belive in him).i noticed that i am more religious now cause of that which is good.remeber GOD will punish him...and reward you...and god will show him to stop hurting you and it usually works when u pray alot...
second: when he says mean things try to communicate with him and if he doesnt ...then talk to someone who is close to you if they dont help at all then write what he said to you and what u think he should have done like apologise and then gve it to him or bury it or store it in a box and when u have hundred letters of bad things he told you show it to him or read it to yourself and burn it and forgive and let go..
third: music heals your heart listen to music that reminds you of the reasons why u love him or listen to music that makes you forget him
fourth:watch cartoons or read a book or study...keep yourself busy with gardening or a favorite hobby
fifth:see him and meet him and talk face to face not on the phone like me all the time...cos when he doesnt see your reaction he will hurt you more and its better for you to show him that you are sad about what he said to you the more communication and being next to each other will stop him from verbal abuse...
sixth: if he calls u something bad like cow think of funny things about cows or why cows are good for us.example: moo moo is funny and i love cheese:) but for more serious words like b**** try to forget it or write down something worse about him.
seventh:in the end if he doesnt change at all...then break up and move on girl or..try to avoid him when he calls on the phone or you dont see him for a week ...it will show him that what he said really hurt you and he will improve each time and belive me it works!
note: you are a lucky girl cos my guy says he cant marry me cos his family wont accept me (cos i am from a different country and religion which is really more complicated than yours)...before u get married to him please think and try to comunicate with him about his problem and maybe he is calling you names cause he missses seeing you...
i hope i helped you...and GOD bless you and be happy in your desicion...its not up to us to choose...its up to you...
2006-10-25 13:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by myheartsuzan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are women, who like to be in abusive relationships, and I think you are one of them, please look for professional help, you can not be in that relationship a day more
2006-10-25 13:41:39 · answer #7 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋