All of my friends have had boyfriends or have had someone like them this year && I havn't! Well, I have but they were all sickos. I hate my love life right now. How can I know if I have found the right guy or if a guy likes me?
2006-10-25 13:21:11 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) How old are you? Why are you comparing your relationships to your friends? It's hard, but ignore that.
My husband and I have a solid relationship and met when I was 19. I was to the point where I wasn't going to let myself be desperate. His sister forced her roommate to marry her because she was jealous of us (and wanted kids). They are going to divorce within the year.
2) Don't hate yourself because you don't have a boyfriend. Learn to love yourself WITHOUT a boyfriend. What will he give you anyway? The more desperate you are, the harder it will be to see a guy for what he trully is. Don't let blinders get in the way.
3) While you don't have a boyfriend, your friends are tied down. You don't have to worry. There are no break-ups, no agruments over petty things, and no pressure. Enjoy it while you can!
4) Become friends who are guys. Just become friends--there's nothing wrong with "just friends". Besides, the more comfortable you are with a guy, the easier it will be to make a move when the time is right.
How can you know if you found the right guy?
You listen to yourself. You find yourself enjoying him, but you also know his flaws. You don't forget his flaws--you understand that they are there. YOU don't change, and HE doesn't change for you.
What if a guy likes you?
Does he like to be around you? Does he like to chat with you?
2006-10-25 13:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u just want 2 part of the crowed but u just have 2 wait. Another thing u can do is be more sociable when u go out with your friends. Approach a guy that u like & strike a conversation but don't give anyone the wrong idea. Be yourself & no 1 else.
2006-10-25 20:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, i know it is very tough to find your true love .In a guy you have to look for his intelligence trust hope love you want him to cry with you when your hurt you need him to be there no matter when where or why.And the one will always tell you the 3 sweet words I LOVE YOU!But at first get to know him.Remember im a girl just like you , no matter who he is you gotta trust him and share every feeling you have and he has together.Remember this:When the time comes your true love will be there waiting for you or maby he is already there and you just don't notice him yet , believe me look for the perfect one !GOOD LUCK I REALY WISH YOU ALL THE BEST :).
2006-10-25 20:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by xopyroxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age and experience to know if you have found Mr. Right. If you had found one, you would feel that you and he got along pretty well and cared for each other at anytime. Most importantly, you need to feel comfortable to be with him and can trust and share any feeling. Remember, a good relationship need to maintain by both sides. Don't expect to a perfect guy. :) Good luck!
2006-10-25 20:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by B W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you haven't found him or you wouldn't be asking. Just be your self and the right one will find you. Try to be a little bit happier and up beat to attract the fun guys. you will know when the right one likes you , you will feel it.
~Good Luck~
2006-10-26 21:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you won't know when mr. right shows up you'll probably find the guy you like when you least espect it in the mean time have fun being single or go do something you like and maybe you'll find a guy with the same interests as you there.
2006-10-25 20:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by california 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant stress this enough the moer u look forlove the more itll flee you and so what if everyone else does
y do u want to b like everyone else your that type of person i hate
stop worrying about what others think live for yourself
2006-10-25 20:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by [trapped][in][a][box] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back and look around. when you go to your regular spots, to a friends house where alot of people hang out... things like that. notice if ur being noticed by anyone u see regularly. otherwise just be yourself, and someone who is equally deserving and "himself" will happen ur way
2006-10-25 20:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Aum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your friends to tell you or help you find someone.Look nice,be kind,sooner or later you have a crush.If you see a boy act shy or you see a boy avoid you maybe thats the one.
2006-10-25 20:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its usually the best friend that you wont date. if you got a guy friend that you can do anything with and have fun and be yourself, and will except you as you are with no hangups, knowin your good points and your faults, and will absolutely do anything to be with you, then thats ur man.
2006-10-25 20:28:45 · answer #10 · answered by jasonjuicy1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋