I went to visit my bf on his bday and i looked at his fone while he was in shower and i saw a text from his best friend that said exactly this "u r not married, u wasted ur time with Linda the other day some one u didnt want to be with. Now u have Olivia and ur scared, go eat!!" My name is not Linda or Olivia. Linda is a chik that wants him and calls him constantly, Olivia is someotha chik he knows and says if he wasnt wit me he would want to be with her and if he could have sex wit ne1 now it would be her. I neva met any of these chicks My question is tell me what you think that text means, and should i ask his best friend what did he mean by that text? To me it sounds like my bf went out with anotha chik resently and didnt tell me (we tell each otha weneva we go out wit other people) I wanna call his bestfriend who sent it n ask him but dunno what to say exactly HELP ME!!!!
2006-10-25 13:19:12 · 18 answers · asked by Lexis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to both ur bf and his best friend
2006-10-25 13:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Soggy thoughts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if this is true... "Olivia is someotha chik he knows and says if he wasnt wit me he would want to be with her and if he could have sex wit ne1 now it would be her." then why are you with him? I'd drop him like a hot potato if I were you. You could obviously do better than someone who is already planning ahead of you... and telling you about it. I wouldn't even waste my time. Go get someone who actually cares about you. You don't even need to confront him about the test message if he's already told you he'd have sex with her and if he wasn't with you he'd be with her... GL and have a nice day!
2006-10-25 13:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't even need to call the friend, just dump the SOB. Seems to me that he's cheating on you...there are two names, neither of which is yours. I'm not exactly sure what you're deal is with him (open relationship) or if you don't mind him cheating but I would find out what's going on then move on.
2006-10-25 13:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend need to have a serious discussion. Even if his friend was joking, you are hurt. You have questions. TALK TO HIM.
Do NOT go to his best friend. You'll be going behind the back of your boyfriend.
If you have questions for him, just ask him. The answers may hurt, but it's better to hear it from him then through the grape vine.
2006-10-25 13:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't get anyone else involved in your relationship!
You obviously don't fully trust him or you wouldn't have been going through his text messages. You may be right in not trusting, after what you found. I would confront him & see what he has to say. Don't think he'll have a good explanation but at least give a chance. Then... dump him!!!
2006-10-25 13:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by SJ_Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for one if the boy friend is doing this and not telling you its going to hurt but the conversation should be between the two of you also why get his best friend involved since he knows what is going on and not telling you about it means he isnt that great of a friend to you and will support your boyfriend no matter what...
2006-10-25 13:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds precisely like my BGF! he's often like "Hows your boyfriend?" like countless time we communicate. until now i became going out with my boyfriend (ex-boyfriend now) we've been 'married' on fb. as quickly as I informed him we broke up he texted returned: :D <333. in any case. He would such as you, he won't. He would merely have the desire to make beneficial your no longer having any issues on your relationship like a sturdy buddy ought to.
2016-12-08 21:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your man. He's the one with all these other "friendships" on the side that's taking time away from you.
2006-10-25 13:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are too many f-ing words on this f-ing page. Therefore cook for forty to forty five minutes and serve, VIOLA!
2006-10-25 13:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tubleroo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i would try to get the numbers....then text from another phone saying your him ....see if it is him or a friend borrowing a phone...but i def wouldn't ask his friend unless he's weak.............
oh and if u do ? them both don't leet them klnow, do it seperatley and see whos story changes...then u know there lying
2006-10-25 13:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋