Me and my boy friend have been goin out for like a year and a half but known each other longer and we are about to have a baby i am 2 months pregnant with his baby and we are happy atleast i thought we were he just called me and ask me if he could date somebody else until i get back in school which im comin back in like two weeks but what should i do im going crazy over here and i dont know what to tell him please help me.
2006-10-25 13:15:46 · 13 answers · asked by Keisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him hell no, he has a family to start thinking about now. It's time for him to grow up and face his responsibilities.
2006-10-25 13:17:35 · answer #1 · answered by Deleted 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My God! You tell him if he dates someone else don't even come around you and don't have anything to do with him. He is a boy and you are about to be thrust right into womanhood, big time. You won't have time to worry about his nasty self when the baby comes. If he has the nerve to treat you like this, please don't allow yourself to be put down. so what, You are having his baby and he can ask this of you? He's a real big time looser. He needs to be taken to court and forced to take responsibility for his baby ASAP. Then you need to grow up and don't forget how you feel right now, this night, keep it in your memory and never forget it. Hopefully you will only make this mistake 1 time and never again let a man use you. Pregnancy is not an accident. The only 100% effective way to prevent it is no intercourse. Condoms, birth control, none of it is 100%. So, think of your baby and don't allow him to talk to you again unless it's about paying for the child that he made too. No fooling around, he's trash. No good. I however wish you luck, and hope for your future. Respect yourself and your family. Turn yourself around and be proud, make everyone in the family proud and dump him faster than he can dump you. He deserves it. You have learned a really hard lesson and I pray you get it and use it to change your life. It will never be the same so, make it better, don't get in the gutter with him again and don't allow him to treat your baby any way but with respect and that means the baby's mama too. God bless you two.
2006-10-25 20:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you retarded? You have a baby. You are basically screwed if your baby's father isn't your husband and isn't filling to stay and take care of you and your baby. You tell him exactly that. It's not the best solution because it is every woman's responsibility to not breed with any man who isn't 100% dedicated to being your husband and child's father. Prior to the modern age, doing so was a death sentence for you and your baby (you would starve).
If you find out too late that he is one of these loser guys then your ONLY option is to get rid of him quickly and immediately (as in a matter of weeks) find the type of man who wants to marry you and take care of you and your children forever. Because, if you don't your life, and your child's life will be miserable, hopeless and short.
2006-10-25 20:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...I feel for you. I'd go crazy if my soon to be BD said something like that...even though we're still trying to develop a deeper relationship (I've known him for 3 years but it was kinda like a booty call thing) But you should talk to him more about it & tell him how you feel. If it turns how he is just straight trippin..don't worry or stress too much..guys are really weird & since ur pregnant & gonna have his baby he will always be a part of ur life no matter what.
u can email me if u wanna talk more -- sweet_face1436@yahoo.com
2006-10-25 20:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have done some homework (on him and for school) before you got pregnant. Now you're stuck with bringing a baby into this world that (apparently) neither of you are ready, willing and/or able to care for. I get so angry everytime I hear another one of these "baby daddy" stories. And for the record, it's "baby's daddy". Please get an education.
2006-10-25 20:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and get a paternity test to sue for child support. I'm basing this on you say "my baby's daddy" instead of acknowledging a relationship with him. Also he's so quick to bail out at a time that should bring you closer together.
2006-10-25 20:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You don't know what to tell him? Tell him of course! If he wants to date someone else, he is not in love with you, the fact that he even asked you is disrespectful. Be prepared to be another single parent fighting for child support. How sad that such tragic situations occur. I wish you the best for your baby.
2006-10-25 20:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by favrd1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pregnant with his child and he wants to date someone else? I smell trouble here. Tell your boyfriend that unless he is serious about helping you look after your child, he should not have made one in the first place.
2006-10-25 20:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's wrong for you asking you to compromise yourself for his own selfishness. If you're willing to let him do this, make sure he let's whoever else he's trying to date know that he's a father now, make him let you listen in on that conversation. What does he need to see someone else for two weeks for anyway? What's the friggin point?
2006-10-25 20:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think is he a good father figure do you want him to be the father of your child and ur maybe husband totally tell him no and if he keeps asking or he cheats on you dump him if he's a good guy he'll be mature about it.
2006-10-25 20:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by california 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋