Every time he goes out (which so happens to be when I'm at work), he doesn't answer his cell. I don't know any of his friends and he is alway bringing my 6 month old son with him. I am concerned that he is still involved with the same chick that knows he has a family. I'm am sick and tired of being tired. How can I find out the truth.
2006-10-25 13:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's cheated on you and you've taken him back, he has to make allowances knowing that it'll take a while for you to trust him again. For a start tell him to turn his bloody phone on, if he's carrying your son around with him you have every right to contact him where ever and whenever.
2006-10-25 13:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not able to let go of the past, and don't think you could ever trust him now or in the future, maybe you should move on. You will never been fully happy in this relationship with these feelings. Him not answering his phone IS suspicious, especially since he has betrayed you before. It seems that he would be making extra efforts to show he can be trusted, and he's not.
2006-10-25 20:16:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find time to talk alone and ask him to honestly answer, and if he says he isn't cheating trust him and hope for the best. If it turns out hes cheating, you shouldn't be the one giving him space. He should be the one waiting for you and fighting to get you back. If he doesn't fight for you, he wasn't worth it in the first place.
2006-10-25 20:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by wendydahhling 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im so sorry for you cuz I know your pain....Ive been thru it and its nothing but heartache n worry...your not gonna trust him for a while..until he can rebuild your faith in him...your watchfull eye will always wonder 'whos he with?" "whats he been up to?".....I know you probably care for him deeply but Im afraid he's gonna tire of your accusations..(and who can blame you?) He needs to prove to you that he can be trusted if you both want the relationship to work. Thats life experience sister.
2006-10-25 20:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As my mom once said: The first you cheat on me, its your fault. The second time, it's mine. A guy who already cheated on you and still gives you reasons to doubt, even after you decided to give him a second chance, doesn't deserve you. I know it's hard to get over, but its the best for you.
2006-10-25 20:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie Beach 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call cheaters...no joking hun this is something that might not go away.you got to be live him or let go.sometimes by not be living him pushes them into doing it anyway.the old saying goes once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-10-25 20:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about the situation. If you aren't convinced with his answer then move on with your life alone withe your son.
2006-10-25 20:15:23 · answer #7 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dump him. Your son deserves better. Most people that cheat once cheat again. Obviously he has lost your trust.
2006-10-25 20:15:14 · answer #8 · answered by shakopcool 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get someone to stalk n confirm that he is cheating...if he is then break it off...this is the only way of finding out without wondering
2006-10-25 20:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do u want to know anymore, he has proven that he cant be trusted AND he has your baby to boot????
he isnt worth your time dear, sorry but move on
harder to do than just me saying it but ur self worth is at risk here
2006-10-25 20:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by iluvluceee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋