Me and my bestfriend almost had sex..but there was a problem...he couldn't get it up!!! WHY?? We have been friends since 6 grade..we are 25 now...We know everything about each other and he want to be a couple!!!
2006-10-25 13:12:31 · 10 answers · asked by fireice8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he develloped a platonic relationship with you...you are like his sister
2006-10-25 13:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he's known you for a long time and is afraid that making the wrong move may ruin your relationship. He probably loves you......He doesn't want to mess a perfect realationship up, so he gets nervous. He is afraid of making a wrong move or doing something that you don't like and he doesn't want you to think that he's a retard. You need to make him feel confident the next time you talk to him. Start it off with something like: "Nobody's perfect, I would be satisfied with anything you give me." the next time he brings up sex. I hope it all works out for you two, you would make a wonderful couple.
2006-10-25 20:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by monkey_woman3425 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To nervous and scared maybe not meant to be since being friends so long ,try again but make sure both want to and dont rush into it go slowly maybe a couple of drinks to slow things down like nerves l mean.
2006-10-25 20:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably nervous....this happens a lot in couples now, especially if you started out as friends. just give it some time and let him know how you feel. try to make him as comfortable as possible. it also could be that he is afraid of disappointing you sexually. whatever you do dont make fun of him. instead tell him you love him no matter what.good luck.
2006-10-25 20:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by joy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're asking why he couldn't get it up, maybe he is not attracted to you. But then again he does want to be a couple, girl I have no clue. Forget everything I just said.
2006-10-25 20:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many reasons for a guy not getting it up. Did you talk to him? If he was drinking, or too tired, doing drugs, then getting hard is difficult. He might see you more as a sister than a sex object. You need to talk.
2006-10-25 20:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anxiety and nerves can do that to a guy. Perhaps he was afraid that it would ruin the friendship and his "little friend" felt the impact of it.
2006-10-25 20:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by The Meksikan Couple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural. Maybe he had masturbated earlier that day. I konw this because it happened to me once. Don't worry, you guys will have other chances.
2006-10-25 20:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey you have been friends for so long that now that you are getting intimate with each other he has gotten nervous. give him another chance and i bet it will get better.
2006-10-25 20:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married first..
He could have been nervous
2006-10-25 20:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshinz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋