i really like her! but marriage is not a prospect for me in my future
2006-10-25 13:10:21 · 37 answers · asked by balanced112 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Respect her! She is a princess, innocent and spotless, waiting for her knight (husband) to come and sweep her off her feet. And you want to blemish this angel. This is the kind of woman you marry. Use your brains. But marriage is not a prospect? Why? , consider yourself blessed that she has chosen you worthy to be her boyfriend, fiance whatever the situation may be. This may seem antiquated but it's the real deal. Let wisdom cut through the foolishness.
2006-10-25 15:45:30 · answer #1 · answered by Andres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's telling you what to do. She doesn't want sex before she gets married. If you do. Then tell her you want sex but not marriage and end it. If you impatient you'll only pressure her and then she'll hate you for pressureing her into doing something she doesn't want to do. Besides what she is also telling you is she doesn't want any diseases that you can get from sex. The way I look at it is this way. If you want to have sex with a female but don't love her then your easy. I don't care what name you give yourself to justify it. The botton line is your easy. Period
2006-10-25 13:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by PAT K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is importanat enough to youthen you will wait for her and marriage. Otherwise be honest with her and tell her you appreciate her wanting to wait to give her husband that special gift but you are just not ready for that kind of commitment and feel perhaps you should move on before she begins to expect more than you are ready to give.
2006-10-25 13:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't plan on marriage then tell her so she can move onto someone else who is interested in marriage at some point in their lives! Find someone who will accept your sex only position!
2006-10-25 13:20:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is more important to you sex or the girl? I hope you choose the girl. Respect her wishes if you really feel that you can't wait to marry her then hit the road.
Especially if you feel that you will never marry her
2006-10-25 13:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by dreson k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sexless relationship or move on... Let her find someone who wants marriage and is willing to wait.
2006-10-25 13:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by milomax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect is important. Let her keep her values intact and get over it. The impatience thing is so not cool.
2006-10-25 13:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by becbec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got 2 hands, don't ya? Why would you try for a girl that wants something totally opposite of what you want out of life?
2006-10-25 14:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kithy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decisions. If you aren't going to marry her, move on if you can't handle it. If you don't want to move on, hop over to the jewelry store and pick up a nice diamond. Good luck!!
2006-10-25 13:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by pisceanwillow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of respect for her, if you can't possibly wait then break up with her so she can find someone a little more patient.
2006-10-25 13:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋